I have to admit, I am just shocked at how much money is being thrown at these problems and nothing seems to actually work. It is so saddening. Has anyone shelled out a bunch of money and actually have results? I know my brother is a major success story, but he alone decided to go to rehab and he went to a state funded program. He has been sober for YEARS ever since and it didn't cost a penny. So I am just wondering - what has worked? I really think the only key is that they have to want sobriety...if they don't want help, it seems very, very futile.