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<blockquote data-quote="Janna" data-source="post: 58159" data-attributes="member: 2737"><p>You know, I love you with all my heart, and I think you are one of the most awesome people I have ever "met".</p><p></p><p>And I know, I have probably said all those things to you :slap: Did I put my foot in my mouth?</p><p></p><p>I think each person does what they do for their own reasons. Personally, in my own shoes, if Dylan was not MY child, I wouldn't even tolerate the garbage. Seriously. If he was adopted, I'd be trying as hard as humanly possible to have him put out. Yeah, I'm awfully mean.</p><p></p><p>So, when I tell you that I don't understand why you would want to do that, just tell me to shut up :nonono: I hope you never took offense to anything I said.</p><p></p><p>I have said before, and would not retract, that if I could go back to being 18 years old, I would have never, ever had children. I deter my children all the time to even wanting them. This world is not a pretty place. These kids are not us when we were growing up. I hear the news, and see things on TV now, that I wouldn't want to even raise anymore kids in this messed up time. </p><p></p><p>I haven't ever been able to not have kids. I haven't ever been in your shoes. You have one kid. difficult child or not, you have one. I have a feeling if I was in your shoes, I may be willing to do it again. But I know for myself, having 3, I won't say it was a mistake because I love my children, but there is no way in he*l I'd do it over.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Janna, post: 58159, member: 2737"] You know, I love you with all my heart, and I think you are one of the most awesome people I have ever "met". And I know, I have probably said all those things to you [img]:slap:[/img] Did I put my foot in my mouth? I think each person does what they do for their own reasons. Personally, in my own shoes, if Dylan was not MY child, I wouldn't even tolerate the garbage. Seriously. If he was adopted, I'd be trying as hard as humanly possible to have him put out. Yeah, I'm awfully mean. So, when I tell you that I don't understand why you would want to do that, just tell me to shut up [img]:nonono:[/img] I hope you never took offense to anything I said. I have said before, and would not retract, that if I could go back to being 18 years old, I would have never, ever had children. I deter my children all the time to even wanting them. This world is not a pretty place. These kids are not us when we were growing up. I hear the news, and see things on TV now, that I wouldn't want to even raise anymore kids in this messed up time. I haven't ever been able to not have kids. I haven't ever been in your shoes. You have one kid. difficult child or not, you have one. I have a feeling if I was in your shoes, I may be willing to do it again. But I know for myself, having 3, I won't say it was a mistake because I love my children, but there is no way in he*l I'd do it over. [/QUOTE]
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