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<blockquote data-quote="Katlin" data-source="post: 291136" data-attributes="member: 2849"><p>That was the title of a Phil Donohue show. For those to young to remember he was a wonderful post Oprah talk show host. I watched the show that day because that was a question that I had to consider with my 12 year old daughter. That was around 17 years ago.</p><p> </p><p>I periodically post about her in the hope of helping others who may be going through this nightmare and who instinctively know there children are not being helped and the experts haven't got a clue.</p><p> </p><p>The following is a letter I wrote yesterday to a parent coping with similar issues.</p><p> </p><p> </p><p>"Diane, When you mentioned shopping in Sears with your children, it triggered a memory that happened with my bio. I had twins, a boy and a girl, and bio was 14 months younger. This was 27 years ago.</p><p> </p><p>We were shopping for Easter clothes. First store, short wait,. Bio was just 3 years old. Something insignificant triggered one of her way over the top tantrums, and she would swear like a sailor, bite, kick and scream. I walked out of the store, a very long walk with her doing this all the way out to the car. When I tell you she was born with her messed up brain, this is one example. Even a short trip to buy food was fraught with frequent outbursts. Since my ex was out of the picture, I dealt with this alone."</p><p> </p><p>My daughter is 29 years old now. I tell people that she was born with the serious issues she acted on daily. She was put in counseling in and out of school starting in kindergarten. She was diagnosed with every personality disorder out there. Borderline, schizoid, etc. She would have such severe tantrums that she would actually experience hair loss after six weeks or so and a rash would appear overnight. When she was just a baby, I knew that something was wrong when she would cry for hours when I tried to sit her down and do my work.</p><p> </p><p>When we went to one of the many therapists, Dr's. etc. they would look for past life events that had happened to her. No medication, helped and she was prescribed with many over the years.</p><p> </p><p>I knew she could not help her behaviour, and that something was inherently wrong.</p><p> </p><p>You probably don't remember the Phil Donohue show but they had guests from a clinic by Chicago and the name of that show was "Are you afraid your child will be a mass murderer" I watched that show and for the first time ever, I saw people who understood my daughter.</p><p> </p><p>I took her to their clinic, which was near Chicago. Naperville ILL. </p><p> </p><p>They have a picture of her taken that first day and she was 12 years old and looked like a crazy person. Her eyes and hair look wild. By that time, I was afraid we would not even get through the apt. without her having one of her classic tantrums. They treat children and adults for chemical imbalances. Elevated copper, zinc deficiencies etc. They do extensive blood work, test hair, do a very extensive history, etc. They are non profit and treat imbalances with vitamins and minerals as a prescription geared to the individual. The man who started this research was a pioneer and I can only say he saved my daughter and our family.</p><p> </p><p>Well, I bribed my daughter into taking her pills for the first two months and then she took them voluntarily because for the first time in her life she felt normal In fact she took them for the nest eight years without urging. There are no side effects. After having tantrums, which included death threats and attempts to stab with knifes, scissors, or any weapon at hand almost weekly, throughout her entire life. (We hid and locked up everything) this behaviour ended within three months. She never had another tantrum. She still had problems but the control was there. Empirically these probably saved her life and maybe ours.</p><p> </p><p>I am not saying your daughter is like mine. She may have a much less severe imbalance. It may be something else entirely. I am also saying that this therapy is not widely accepted or even known about, and I believe it is because the drug companies, the therapist and Dr's, would not find this treatment profitable. This is a quiet revolution but if you read the testimonials you may see your child described there. I and the rest of our family were impacted by her behaviour so much and I reach out whenever I can to help anyone else who has a child with a chemical imbalance which may not reach the level of hers but who can be helped in this simple and non toxic way. Please feel free to write or ask me any questions.</p><p> </p><p>It is so sad to know that this is easily treated but after being so misunderstood by so many doctors. (including U.of Michigan evaluation, two expensive private mental hospitals, many counselors, drugs of every kind, the answer was there but no one was able to help her before age 12 and much damage had already been done. Good luck, Katlin</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Katlin, post: 291136, member: 2849"] That was the title of a Phil Donohue show. For those to young to remember he was a wonderful post Oprah talk show host. I watched the show that day because that was a question that I had to consider with my 12 year old daughter. That was around 17 years ago. I periodically post about her in the hope of helping others who may be going through this nightmare and who instinctively know there children are not being helped and the experts haven't got a clue. The following is a letter I wrote yesterday to a parent coping with similar issues. "Diane, When you mentioned shopping in Sears with your children, it triggered a memory that happened with my bio. I had twins, a boy and a girl, and bio was 14 months younger. This was 27 years ago. We were shopping for Easter clothes. First store, short wait,. Bio was just 3 years old. Something insignificant triggered one of her way over the top tantrums, and she would swear like a sailor, bite, kick and scream. I walked out of the store, a very long walk with her doing this all the way out to the car. When I tell you she was born with her messed up brain, this is one example. Even a short trip to buy food was fraught with frequent outbursts. Since my ex was out of the picture, I dealt with this alone." My daughter is 29 years old now. I tell people that she was born with the serious issues she acted on daily. She was put in counseling in and out of school starting in kindergarten. She was diagnosed with every personality disorder out there. Borderline, schizoid, etc. She would have such severe tantrums that she would actually experience hair loss after six weeks or so and a rash would appear overnight. When she was just a baby, I knew that something was wrong when she would cry for hours when I tried to sit her down and do my work. When we went to one of the many therapists, Dr's. etc. they would look for past life events that had happened to her. No medication, helped and she was prescribed with many over the years. I knew she could not help her behaviour, and that something was inherently wrong. You probably don't remember the Phil Donohue show but they had guests from a clinic by Chicago and the name of that show was "Are you afraid your child will be a mass murderer" I watched that show and for the first time ever, I saw people who understood my daughter. I took her to their clinic, which was near Chicago. Naperville ILL. They have a picture of her taken that first day and she was 12 years old and looked like a crazy person. Her eyes and hair look wild. By that time, I was afraid we would not even get through the apt. without her having one of her classic tantrums. They treat children and adults for chemical imbalances. Elevated copper, zinc deficiencies etc. They do extensive blood work, test hair, do a very extensive history, etc. They are non profit and treat imbalances with vitamins and minerals as a prescription geared to the individual. The man who started this research was a pioneer and I can only say he saved my daughter and our family. Well, I bribed my daughter into taking her pills for the first two months and then she took them voluntarily because for the first time in her life she felt normal In fact she took them for the nest eight years without urging. There are no side effects. After having tantrums, which included death threats and attempts to stab with knifes, scissors, or any weapon at hand almost weekly, throughout her entire life. (We hid and locked up everything) this behaviour ended within three months. She never had another tantrum. She still had problems but the control was there. Empirically these probably saved her life and maybe ours. I am not saying your daughter is like mine. She may have a much less severe imbalance. It may be something else entirely. I am also saying that this therapy is not widely accepted or even known about, and I believe it is because the drug companies, the therapist and Dr's, would not find this treatment profitable. This is a quiet revolution but if you read the testimonials you may see your child described there. I and the rest of our family were impacted by her behaviour so much and I reach out whenever I can to help anyone else who has a child with a chemical imbalance which may not reach the level of hers but who can be helped in this simple and non toxic way. Please feel free to write or ask me any questions. It is so sad to know that this is easily treated but after being so misunderstood by so many doctors. (including U.of Michigan evaluation, two expensive private mental hospitals, many counselors, drugs of every kind, the answer was there but no one was able to help her before age 12 and much damage had already been done. Good luck, Katlin [/QUOTE]
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