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Argue, argue, argue...stomach in knots
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 646680" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Well, I was mistaken. Ex wasn't talking about my daughter. He said it about her SO, who is currently laid off.</p><p></p><p>I guess that makes it slightly better???? Not to her. She's horrified. What did her SO say? "Men say such stupid things." He wasn't even upset...lol.</p><p></p><p>We Skyped later so I could see the baby and while we spoke she said she needed time to talk to him again. She will. She's almost too nice sometimes. She already paid him and s he will talk to him again. It will take a long time for her to learn detachment but she is learning to stick up for herself finally!!!The last thing I want for either of my girls is to have them learn at 50, like I did, that it's not ok for certain people to treat you like garbage. I want them to have that knowledge earlier than I did. It is hard to teach that concept to Sonic because I doubt he has a mean bone in his body and 37 already doesn't take guff from anyone. We take guff from him...lol.</p><p></p><p>I feel horrible for having married ex and, worse, not even realizing what a bad husband and father he was and having three kids with him (two adopted). I really did not know that we didn't have a normal marriage because all I knew were my parents and they insulted one another all the time. I thought all marriages were verbally abusive.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 646680, member: 1550"] Well, I was mistaken. Ex wasn't talking about my daughter. He said it about her SO, who is currently laid off. I guess that makes it slightly better???? Not to her. She's horrified. What did her SO say? "Men say such stupid things." He wasn't even upset...lol. We Skyped later so I could see the baby and while we spoke she said she needed time to talk to him again. She will. She's almost too nice sometimes. She already paid him and s he will talk to him again. It will take a long time for her to learn detachment but she is learning to stick up for herself finally!!!The last thing I want for either of my girls is to have them learn at 50, like I did, that it's not ok for certain people to treat you like garbage. I want them to have that knowledge earlier than I did. It is hard to teach that concept to Sonic because I doubt he has a mean bone in his body and 37 already doesn't take guff from anyone. We take guff from him...lol. I feel horrible for having married ex and, worse, not even realizing what a bad husband and father he was and having three kids with him (two adopted). I really did not know that we didn't have a normal marriage because all I knew were my parents and they insulted one another all the time. I thought all marriages were verbally abusive. [/QUOTE]
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