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Argue, argue, argue...stomach in knots
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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 646755" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Thanks, cubsgirl, but it wasn't always this way and I had a very hard time when Scott took off, yet still talked to ex. But I have just learned various coping mechanisms that help me, such as not trying to change what is. I can't. I can't change who others are either. Or what they do. </p><p></p><p>As long as I have my husband, my girls (all three) and Sonic and 37 when he is being nice, life is good and peaceful. I try very hard to make it that way and don't allow toxic people in my world anymore.</p><p></p><p>But it wasn't always like this. Trust me. I had to learn the hard way that, no matter how hard you try, you can NOT change another person one iota. And that going over the past is a waste of time...more a learning experience. And that the future is unknown so why worry about what we don't know? Living in the moment has given me peace I never knew. </p><p></p><p>If you can be a cubs fan, you can handle anything <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite2" alt=";)" title="Wink ;)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=";)" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 646755, member: 1550"] Thanks, cubsgirl, but it wasn't always this way and I had a very hard time when Scott took off, yet still talked to ex. But I have just learned various coping mechanisms that help me, such as not trying to change what is. I can't. I can't change who others are either. Or what they do. As long as I have my husband, my girls (all three) and Sonic and 37 when he is being nice, life is good and peaceful. I try very hard to make it that way and don't allow toxic people in my world anymore. But it wasn't always like this. Trust me. I had to learn the hard way that, no matter how hard you try, you can NOT change another person one iota. And that going over the past is a waste of time...more a learning experience. And that the future is unknown so why worry about what we don't know? Living in the moment has given me peace I never knew. If you can be a cubs fan, you can handle anything ;) [/QUOTE]
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