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Asperger's and lying
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<blockquote data-quote="Marguerite" data-source="post: 400009" data-attributes="member: 1991"><p>If he's only thinking in the moment, then you need to get into his head and anticipate what his answers will be if he is a) innocent or b) guilty. Then re-phrase your question, and watch his body language.</p><p></p><p>A lie is generally more complex than the truth, and harder to sustain. It also needs to be internally consistent, and here is where an Aspie can fall down. They DON'T plan ahead, and so get caught out more easily. We found we had to punish lying far more, than punishing what they were lying about.</p><p></p><p>Marg</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Marguerite, post: 400009, member: 1991"] If he's only thinking in the moment, then you need to get into his head and anticipate what his answers will be if he is a) innocent or b) guilty. Then re-phrase your question, and watch his body language. A lie is generally more complex than the truth, and harder to sustain. It also needs to be internally consistent, and here is where an Aspie can fall down. They DON'T plan ahead, and so get caught out more easily. We found we had to punish lying far more, than punishing what they were lying about. Marg [/QUOTE]
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