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<blockquote data-quote="Confused" data-source="post: 643122" data-attributes="member: 18100"><p>Wiped Out,I know I heard the saying" When they tell you they hate you your doing a good job" because your their parent not their friend. It does hurt esp from her because shes really never been like that. My son Im kinda used to it because he been saying that a long time. Sorry your difficult child tells you that too.</p><p></p><p>dstc_99, Its a good idea but then my daughter will be all" you planned her to be here and that will make her just as mad too I think. They tried to come on Sat and just go without prior plan but she said tomorrow. But I will try what you said overall might be easier.</p><p></p><p>confuzzled, I didnt look at it that way. I know I can be that way too and its even worse for her. Maybe I havent fully accepted the fat she is aspie or something as to her doctors probables. I gave in and gave her computer and Ipad back and when I did.. she came out and ate..talked to the dogs ( not me shes mad at me) and went back in her room. My daughter has her list of excuses for school. One day she forgot her water bottle. Another she hadn't eaten breakfast although they serve breakfast and lunch and she had plenty of time to eat. Few days she was sick,( once she was)shes too tired, she was mad at her brother, her homework wasnt done, another she didnt want to go because we didnt have litle soda bottles for her to take. </p><p></p><p>See thats the thing Im not here nights cuz Im caring for grandpa. This has made it all worse.. she wont come with me so she stays with my dad. But Im changing things believe me!!! Ill also take you up on the stick to rule all year plan. Im sorry all for my spelling and wording, sorry If I sound as If Im giving up at times Im not. Just need to concentrate on my kids and me and another person took that wrong cuz I didnt word it the way I told you all I just said I cant do it all anymore.. ok, my fault for wording.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Confused, post: 643122, member: 18100"] Wiped Out,I know I heard the saying" When they tell you they hate you your doing a good job" because your their parent not their friend. It does hurt esp from her because shes really never been like that. My son Im kinda used to it because he been saying that a long time. Sorry your difficult child tells you that too. dstc_99, Its a good idea but then my daughter will be all" you planned her to be here and that will make her just as mad too I think. They tried to come on Sat and just go without prior plan but she said tomorrow. But I will try what you said overall might be easier. confuzzled, I didnt look at it that way. I know I can be that way too and its even worse for her. Maybe I havent fully accepted the fat she is aspie or something as to her doctors probables. I gave in and gave her computer and Ipad back and when I did.. she came out and ate..talked to the dogs ( not me shes mad at me) and went back in her room. My daughter has her list of excuses for school. One day she forgot her water bottle. Another she hadn't eaten breakfast although they serve breakfast and lunch and she had plenty of time to eat. Few days she was sick,( once she was)shes too tired, she was mad at her brother, her homework wasnt done, another she didnt want to go because we didnt have litle soda bottles for her to take. See thats the thing Im not here nights cuz Im caring for grandpa. This has made it all worse.. she wont come with me so she stays with my dad. But Im changing things believe me!!! Ill also take you up on the stick to rule all year plan. Im sorry all for my spelling and wording, sorry If I sound as If Im giving up at times Im not. Just need to concentrate on my kids and me and another person took that wrong cuz I didnt word it the way I told you all I just said I cant do it all anymore.. ok, my fault for wording. [/QUOTE]
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