Hi guys... I am the single mom of a 9 year old. I have been struggling with my son's school problems since Kindergarten. He has been evaluated by the school district and by Kaiser (Autism Spectrum Disorders (ASD), ADHD, developmental pediatrition, audiologist, Occupational Therapist (OT)) and he has not been diagnosed with anything. School officially put him in Special Education last year... under ED and OHI. His problems are mainly social and behavioral. This year there has been a LOT of task avoidance. When he was in 1st/2nd grade, he would get into these huge tantrums and have the whole school in a tizzy. It got so bad for awhile that he had an aide. That has gone away, but we still continue to have awful days. Shouting out, defying teacher, etc. etc. He has a BSP that assigns stars for positive behavior in different areas... I give him rewards at home for the stars. His IEP addresses some of the behavior and task avoidance. It also states that the RSP teacher is supposed to go over social stories with him, but he misses so much work in class that most of RSP is sent making up his work. School did a mental health assessment of him in February, result was they were going to get him a counselor. There have been no visits with said counselor yet, and the school year is almost over. I feel like I keep on going in circles. I get these notes about his behavior, but I do not know what to do next to help him. I feel physically sick, all of the time, just thinking about it. Worst of all is my son. I dont know ow to help him. He has hated school since Kindergarten. Who ever heard of that? His self esteem suffers, he has no friends. Please, someone tell me what to do next!?