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<blockquote data-quote="Malika" data-source="post: 481448" data-attributes="member: 11227"><p>For me - bit of psychologising coming up so please switch off your TV set now if that will bore you <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> - the difference between to consequence or not to consequence (that is the question) is to do with whether we take an "external" view of people or an "internal" one. From the external one we just want (not unreasonably) life to be orderly and people not to cause disruptions to others; this is our main focus and we believe it is right to use the necessary means to achieve that. From the internal view, we are concerned with people's feelings and inner states - wanting them to be whole rather than fractured, have integrity rather than just going through the motions. And from that point of view, consequences are not very meaningful. They condition behaviour but they do not help create the structure of a person.</p><p>Just my 2 or 20 cents' worth...</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Malika, post: 481448, member: 11227"] For me - bit of psychologising coming up so please switch off your TV set now if that will bore you :) - the difference between to consequence or not to consequence (that is the question) is to do with whether we take an "external" view of people or an "internal" one. From the external one we just want (not unreasonably) life to be orderly and people not to cause disruptions to others; this is our main focus and we believe it is right to use the necessary means to achieve that. From the internal view, we are concerned with people's feelings and inner states - wanting them to be whole rather than fractured, have integrity rather than just going through the motions. And from that point of view, consequences are not very meaningful. They condition behaviour but they do not help create the structure of a person. Just my 2 or 20 cents' worth... [/QUOTE]
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