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<blockquote data-quote="Nancy" data-source="post: 545674" data-attributes="member: 59"><p>Linda this is so much what I wanted for you. You and Steve did do the hard work and in the end we raise our children to leave us. You kept the door open for Kt and she knows you are there for her but she can no longer abuse you. You are in a more peaceful place because you know she is safe for now and that she can and will contact you if needed. As hurt as you are, the love you have for both Kt and Wm just doesn't leave when they walk out your door. Kt is not going to forget you either. She is conflicted right now and feels loyalty to her bm and doesn't know where in this world she belongs.</p><p></p><p>You have done your job. It would be ideal if all our kids grew up and left home and moved and still had a wonderful relationship with us and we got to see the fruits of our labor, but that just isn't how it works many times. the best you can hope for is that she is safe and finds her way in this world. You can have a different, non-stressful relationship with her now that she has someone else to see her day-to-day side.</p><p></p><p>I'm so glad you are at peace.</p><p></p><p>Nancy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nancy, post: 545674, member: 59"] Linda this is so much what I wanted for you. You and Steve did do the hard work and in the end we raise our children to leave us. You kept the door open for Kt and she knows you are there for her but she can no longer abuse you. You are in a more peaceful place because you know she is safe for now and that she can and will contact you if needed. As hurt as you are, the love you have for both Kt and Wm just doesn't leave when they walk out your door. Kt is not going to forget you either. She is conflicted right now and feels loyalty to her bm and doesn't know where in this world she belongs. You have done your job. It would be ideal if all our kids grew up and left home and moved and still had a wonderful relationship with us and we got to see the fruits of our labor, but that just isn't how it works many times. the best you can hope for is that she is safe and finds her way in this world. You can have a different, non-stressful relationship with her now that she has someone else to see her day-to-day side. I'm so glad you are at peace. Nancy [/QUOTE]
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