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<blockquote data-quote="buddy" data-source="post: 471975" data-attributes="member: 12886"><p>Well I think your prayers coming from all points of the globe really helped me just stay calm and get business done. For some reason Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) was scheduled so I had someone here just after it all started. he actually ran off (just hid in our elevators and the woods behind the park, small patch in the middle of the complex). Just so happened our neuro called to check on him so she said get him off it. Not worth all of this. I warned him that if he was too out of control to be safe, I was going to call 911 and THAT is when he went nuts. I learned a lesson...just do it, dont warn...I hoped it would make him realize he didn't want a repeat of last wed when police were called, but I didn't take him in because clonidine dose worked. Our plan worked fine...911 /police came then ambulance and he barely moved a muscle, so so scared. one cop was a little weird but nothing too bad. Ambulance folks were awesome and he just walked there. AT ER he kept asking if i would check him out in time for NASCAR tomorrow (hell, it is today now--I just got home and washed up). He kept saying he was going to fake being good so he could come home and beat me up some more. I explained that they went to school for this and they could tell when kids were doing that. he believed me. Nurse at the psychiatric hospital (a very small child/teen specialty hospital) said that was one of the most interesting interviews ever for intake, she said he could not stay on topic and when he did it was so obviously just a made up answer.... BUt when asked why he was there he said, cause of my mom....she said why, and he said, cause I beat her up. Why? because she said she was gonna call 911 and I couldn't play with my friends (not true, he was out with his friends when it started). So nuts. The kids again rallied but I asked them to leave because I think the audience fueled things. They were good kids and left. They are reall worried though. Two neighbors texted me and said they will do whatever I need to help. My big concern is if he has to stay I will not have a pay check. I called to ask my dad if he can help and he said no. So, if I can't pay rent, I will be kicked out. I have no way to get anything else then and except for staying at my sisters, what to do? she lives in another part of the cities and not in his school district and in the old one we left so can't go there. Hopefully this will be short because even if the medications are out by Wednesday I can get 40 hours in on the time card. If they want to do medication adjustment, I and observe they said we can do outpatient too so then I would get paid for the time he is with me. I will of course just lose our house if it means he needs to be there, but another concern is that he is going to love it there. It is a beautiful nice place. I have to say for how much he was angry, he wanted to hold my hand for blood draw and when they asked what relaxes him, he said calling my mom. SO, guess I am not a total waste in his mind. i am going to try to sleep. I cant see him till 11 tomorrow and then only till 2 and again at 6 to8. weekdays can't see them till 6 so I am glad he is there on a weekend. They said they think he will be out mon or tues but we will see. he is on the big kid side for sleep but they have him grouped with the little kids (6-12) because he is smaller than them and of course as developmentally young as the 6-9 yr olds. When I went to kiss him goodnight, he was wrapped up in a blanket with the teddy bear I brought him from home...looked like he was 2. I keep leaking a tear then go numb. I think if I cut loose I wont do as good of a job. oh well. thanks all.... I am going to call tomorrow morning and will check in with you all. TeDo, sending my thoughts to you...hope our guys get over this soon.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="buddy, post: 471975, member: 12886"] Well I think your prayers coming from all points of the globe really helped me just stay calm and get business done. For some reason Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) was scheduled so I had someone here just after it all started. he actually ran off (just hid in our elevators and the woods behind the park, small patch in the middle of the complex). Just so happened our neuro called to check on him so she said get him off it. Not worth all of this. I warned him that if he was too out of control to be safe, I was going to call 911 and THAT is when he went nuts. I learned a lesson...just do it, dont warn...I hoped it would make him realize he didn't want a repeat of last wed when police were called, but I didn't take him in because clonidine dose worked. Our plan worked fine...911 /police came then ambulance and he barely moved a muscle, so so scared. one cop was a little weird but nothing too bad. Ambulance folks were awesome and he just walked there. AT ER he kept asking if i would check him out in time for NASCAR tomorrow (hell, it is today now--I just got home and washed up). He kept saying he was going to fake being good so he could come home and beat me up some more. I explained that they went to school for this and they could tell when kids were doing that. he believed me. Nurse at the psychiatric hospital (a very small child/teen specialty hospital) said that was one of the most interesting interviews ever for intake, she said he could not stay on topic and when he did it was so obviously just a made up answer.... BUt when asked why he was there he said, cause of my mom....she said why, and he said, cause I beat her up. Why? because she said she was gonna call 911 and I couldn't play with my friends (not true, he was out with his friends when it started). So nuts. The kids again rallied but I asked them to leave because I think the audience fueled things. They were good kids and left. They are reall worried though. Two neighbors texted me and said they will do whatever I need to help. My big concern is if he has to stay I will not have a pay check. I called to ask my dad if he can help and he said no. So, if I can't pay rent, I will be kicked out. I have no way to get anything else then and except for staying at my sisters, what to do? she lives in another part of the cities and not in his school district and in the old one we left so can't go there. Hopefully this will be short because even if the medications are out by Wednesday I can get 40 hours in on the time card. If they want to do medication adjustment, I and observe they said we can do outpatient too so then I would get paid for the time he is with me. I will of course just lose our house if it means he needs to be there, but another concern is that he is going to love it there. It is a beautiful nice place. I have to say for how much he was angry, he wanted to hold my hand for blood draw and when they asked what relaxes him, he said calling my mom. SO, guess I am not a total waste in his mind. i am going to try to sleep. I cant see him till 11 tomorrow and then only till 2 and again at 6 to8. weekdays can't see them till 6 so I am glad he is there on a weekend. They said they think he will be out mon or tues but we will see. he is on the big kid side for sleep but they have him grouped with the little kids (6-12) because he is smaller than them and of course as developmentally young as the 6-9 yr olds. When I went to kiss him goodnight, he was wrapped up in a blanket with the teddy bear I brought him from home...looked like he was 2. I keep leaking a tear then go numb. I think if I cut loose I wont do as good of a job. oh well. thanks all.... I am going to call tomorrow morning and will check in with you all. TeDo, sending my thoughts to you...hope our guys get over this soon. [/QUOTE]
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