Attachment issues...

Roxona

Active Member
Boy, what a hard situation. Every day must have felt like a battle. I know it is here. I think a lot of what you're probably dealing with is them learning to be independent....why can't kids learn to be independent without being nasty about it? Anyway, pretty soon they will fly from the nest and will be out on their own, so I think it's a good time to start doing things you want to do, such as hobbies and things like that. It sounds like you might not have ever had that chance if you were raising them from a young age. Once they get out on their own and learn what it really means to be an adult, I'll bet they come around and start appreciating you for the sacrifices you made for them. (((BIG HUGS)))
 
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