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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 595916" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>You handled the situation well. This is just my take on it, however, perhaps having this all written up in clear, concise and very realistic legal terms may be helpful for everyone. If you have an attorney friend, or can pay for an attorney to draw up a document which states, in absolutely clear and legal terms what your financial willingness is and for exactly how long. Like what is drawn up in divorces. Not what your expectations are of her, simply what exactly you will be paying. I think if it were me, I would do something like that, because people tend to forget or misrepresent the truth to their own advantage later on, 'he said, she said', and it will make you crazy. It also may avoid you having to have this same conversation when she decides she won't work, or she didn't hear you about not paying for her second year unless she works. It will all be clearly defined. End of story.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 595916, member: 13542"] You handled the situation well. This is just my take on it, however, perhaps having this all written up in clear, concise and very realistic legal terms may be helpful for everyone. If you have an attorney friend, or can pay for an attorney to draw up a document which states, in absolutely clear and legal terms what your financial willingness is and for exactly how long. Like what is drawn up in divorces. Not what your expectations are of her, simply what exactly you will be paying. I think if it were me, I would do something like that, because people tend to forget or misrepresent the truth to their own advantage later on, 'he said, she said', and it will make you crazy. It also may avoid you having to have this same conversation when she decides she won't work, or she didn't hear you about not paying for her second year unless she works. It will all be clearly defined. End of story. [/QUOTE]
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