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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 163723" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Steely, </p><p> </p><p>I wish I had something to say to make you feel any better. What would be wrong with taking your sisters autopsey report to your local coroner and asking him to give his opinion on the case? Maybe make a copy with a letter stating your feelings? </p><p> </p><p>It's a guess as to how thorough the coroner for your sisters case was, but by law and reputation they have to be so thorough as to be above suspicion if ever a case were reopened. Most coroners are 'voted' into office not just there. So in order to keep their job they have to be very thorough. </p><p> </p><p>I would only guess that in being that thorough he would have looked for clues above and beyond what the police verbally gave him, by examination of her body. Knowing that even with my Father's death didnt' make me feel better - See I wasn't there and I got left having to believe what other's told me on how he died. Even then from doctors, family, clergy - I had a hard time believing "ALL THAT COULD BE DONE" was. I walked away feeling angry and cheated for a long time. Eventually I started to allow myself to remember the GOOD things about my Dad and it let me - let him go. My good memories were more important than clouding any time with my negative what if thoughts. </p><p> </p><p>No one can answer for you what you feel - and I'm sorry you are hurting. There really isn't a time limit on grief. </p><p> </p><p>Hugs for your hurting heart. </p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 163723, member: 4964"] Steely, I wish I had something to say to make you feel any better. What would be wrong with taking your sisters autopsey report to your local coroner and asking him to give his opinion on the case? Maybe make a copy with a letter stating your feelings? It's a guess as to how thorough the coroner for your sisters case was, but by law and reputation they have to be so thorough as to be above suspicion if ever a case were reopened. Most coroners are 'voted' into office not just there. So in order to keep their job they have to be very thorough. I would only guess that in being that thorough he would have looked for clues above and beyond what the police verbally gave him, by examination of her body. Knowing that even with my Father's death didnt' make me feel better - See I wasn't there and I got left having to believe what other's told me on how he died. Even then from doctors, family, clergy - I had a hard time believing "ALL THAT COULD BE DONE" was. I walked away feeling angry and cheated for a long time. Eventually I started to allow myself to remember the GOOD things about my Dad and it let me - let him go. My good memories were more important than clouding any time with my negative what if thoughts. No one can answer for you what you feel - and I'm sorry you are hurting. There really isn't a time limit on grief. Hugs for your hurting heart. Star [/QUOTE]
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