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AZ MOM not standing down...how do i prove my adult child is doing drugs?
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<blockquote data-quote="toughlovin" data-source="post: 579656" data-attributes="member: 15801"><p>OK I am guessing you want to prove he is using drugs so that you can show him the house rules, how he is not meeting them and that he needs to move out? Is that correct? I get that, I have been there and I know that feeling of wanting to have good evidence so that your justification for making him move out is clear and "fair".</p><p></p><p>What others have said is true, there are home drug tests, but they dont test for everything and there are ways around them. If you are going to use them then you need to see him pee to make sure he is really taking it properly. And there are plenty of things that dont show up. </p><p></p><p>I think it would be better to take a look at your rules and if he is following them. If he is not then tell him he needs to move out. You really dont need any more justifcation than that. And bottom line is it is not a good life lesson for him to learn he can live at home and disobey all the rules... out in society if you disobey the rules you end up in jail.</p><p></p><p>And I totally agree with finding a good alanon group, especially one that is specifically for parents. Going to alanon has elped me immensely.</p><p></p><p>TL</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="toughlovin, post: 579656, member: 15801"] OK I am guessing you want to prove he is using drugs so that you can show him the house rules, how he is not meeting them and that he needs to move out? Is that correct? I get that, I have been there and I know that feeling of wanting to have good evidence so that your justification for making him move out is clear and "fair". What others have said is true, there are home drug tests, but they dont test for everything and there are ways around them. If you are going to use them then you need to see him pee to make sure he is really taking it properly. And there are plenty of things that dont show up. I think it would be better to take a look at your rules and if he is following them. If he is not then tell him he needs to move out. You really dont need any more justifcation than that. And bottom line is it is not a good life lesson for him to learn he can live at home and disobey all the rules... out in society if you disobey the rules you end up in jail. And I totally agree with finding a good alanon group, especially one that is specifically for parents. Going to alanon has elped me immensely. TL [/QUOTE]
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