Well, we played it pretty casual with the birthday dinner. I texted her (ha ha! Two can play that game) that I was too busy to get the house ready for her and we would go to a new hamburger/sports bar. It was loud and busy and didn't allow for any serious debates. I gave her her book - I get her the new Grisham book every year, a card, and her I-Pod shuffle. She opened the shuffle package and said "Great! What did you put on it?" I said "I had it engraved for you." (Free service at apple.com) "Huh? No! What music did you put on it?" "Nothing. It's your I-Pod you'll have to deal with keeping track of it. And I don't want your I-Tunes on my computer." "Well, I don't know how, and my computer's broken and you already have all the music I want on your computer." "That's too bad. This might be a good reason to fix your computer." Her boyfriend tells her that she can do some sort of online service and get an unlimited lifetime membership for $100, or an unlimited monthly service for $8. "Cool I can put that on your computer!" boyfriend: "No you can't. I don't have any room for your stuff and I don't want you using my computer. Fix yours if you want it." Too bad he really doesn't want to be in a relationship with her. He might be able to teach her some manners!