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<blockquote data-quote="New Leaf" data-source="post: 746363" data-attributes="member: 19522"><p>Oh Beta, I’m so sorry for this. It’s horrible. I believe it’s projection. They have to blame and point fingers at someone else for their bad choices, so they can look at themselves in the mirror. Unfortunately, I have read this time and again, it’s us, we are the target.</p><p> Not buying into that. </p><p>I understand the grieving, it hits me in the gut at times. The only way is to try our best to work through it and keep building ourselves back up. I am glad you are determined not to let it ruin the rest of your lives. We have value and we matter. Whether or not our waywards acknowledge it, we have done our best to raise them. </p><p>As my daughter puts blame on me for her problems and choices, I think to myself the damage she has caused her three children. Chooses drugs and partying over them. She can’t seem to fathom this. </p><p>These adult kids of ours who are off the tracks have a whole different way of thinking. </p><p>Hopefully they will one day wake up.</p><p>Let’s not hold our breath until they do.</p><p>Keep on keeping on.</p><p>(((Hugs)))</p><p>Leafy</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="New Leaf, post: 746363, member: 19522"] Oh Beta, I’m so sorry for this. It’s horrible. I believe it’s projection. They have to blame and point fingers at someone else for their bad choices, so they can look at themselves in the mirror. Unfortunately, I have read this time and again, it’s us, we are the target. Not buying into that. I understand the grieving, it hits me in the gut at times. The only way is to try our best to work through it and keep building ourselves back up. I am glad you are determined not to let it ruin the rest of your lives. We have value and we matter. Whether or not our waywards acknowledge it, we have done our best to raise them. As my daughter puts blame on me for her problems and choices, I think to myself the damage she has caused her three children. Chooses drugs and partying over them. She can’t seem to fathom this. These adult kids of ours who are off the tracks have a whole different way of thinking. Hopefully they will one day wake up. Let’s not hold our breath until they do. Keep on keeping on. (((Hugs))) Leafy [/QUOTE]
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