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<blockquote data-quote="lupylisa" data-source="post: 547561" data-attributes="member: 14480"><p>Thanks again to all who posted. It really gives me courage to see this through (even though I don't understand what the delay is with the police department). They still have not arrested him and the longer this goes the harder it is on us. The really hardest part was crossing the threshold to that police station. And my husband did finally agree that this was best and met me there and also wrote a statement. Now its in the hands of the police department. In the meantime he has been calling his Dad talking about "his plans". He has yet to say sorry for what he has done. We have not spoken of reporting this to the police. My husband had sent him a very lengthy email about "being done" and not bankrolling his actions anymore. But the longer it goes the harder it is. I just wish we could put this all in motion.</p><p></p><p>But then again part of me is so scared. @ JANET BELOW--- your post makes me so scared for him. Your son got 3 felony counts for each check!! I think our son wrote about 40!!! I like the other parts about house arrest (although who's house would that be YIKES!!). Also is your son finished with all this and able to get a job now that he has a felony charge? </p><p></p><p>This is what worries me most. That because of being stupid, 19, whacked out on drugs, off the drugs he needs for his bipolar, he did really dumb things. He hurt himself and us but no one else. (YET) Should this one stupid act (or few stupid years) be what defines him for the rest of his life? I mean his response would be "I have no future. I should just die." And really, I don't understand it either. What kind of future does a person with a felony record have? I mean I am really far removed from the criminal world so I just don't know.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, thanks again to all who posted. I am just real sad.</p><p></p><p>Oh and to WITZEND, you made some very insightful points. We have thought about these very things. Not that it matter, our car is the one that got shot up and the guy who took the car from my son was the one who was shot at and the guy in this backseat died. But nevertheless this is way way way out of our control. </p><p></p><p>We have to do this I know. But it is just tearing me up inside. I can not get beyond seeing my lil blue eyed blond curly haired sweet boy. It is hard to visualize this boy as a monster.</p><p></p><p>Thanks.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="lupylisa, post: 547561, member: 14480"] Thanks again to all who posted. It really gives me courage to see this through (even though I don't understand what the delay is with the police department). They still have not arrested him and the longer this goes the harder it is on us. The really hardest part was crossing the threshold to that police station. And my husband did finally agree that this was best and met me there and also wrote a statement. Now its in the hands of the police department. In the meantime he has been calling his Dad talking about "his plans". He has yet to say sorry for what he has done. We have not spoken of reporting this to the police. My husband had sent him a very lengthy email about "being done" and not bankrolling his actions anymore. But the longer it goes the harder it is. I just wish we could put this all in motion. But then again part of me is so scared. @ JANET BELOW--- your post makes me so scared for him. Your son got 3 felony counts for each check!! I think our son wrote about 40!!! I like the other parts about house arrest (although who's house would that be YIKES!!). Also is your son finished with all this and able to get a job now that he has a felony charge? This is what worries me most. That because of being stupid, 19, whacked out on drugs, off the drugs he needs for his bipolar, he did really dumb things. He hurt himself and us but no one else. (YET) Should this one stupid act (or few stupid years) be what defines him for the rest of his life? I mean his response would be "I have no future. I should just die." And really, I don't understand it either. What kind of future does a person with a felony record have? I mean I am really far removed from the criminal world so I just don't know. Anyway, thanks again to all who posted. I am just real sad. Oh and to WITZEND, you made some very insightful points. We have thought about these very things. Not that it matter, our car is the one that got shot up and the guy who took the car from my son was the one who was shot at and the guy in this backseat died. But nevertheless this is way way way out of our control. We have to do this I know. But it is just tearing me up inside. I can not get beyond seeing my lil blue eyed blond curly haired sweet boy. It is hard to visualize this boy as a monster. Thanks. [/QUOTE]
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