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<blockquote data-quote="Deni D" data-source="post: 760994" data-attributes="member: 22840"><p>Acacia, I get your concern. Our homes should be our own well earned places of peace, and not be touched by any outside influences, not even our offspring. He's got his own place, soon to be no concern of yours, as it should be. I don't go for being deceptive, but when you have a feeling, as someone who lives aboveboard, that you might just be being deceived I think it's time to protect yourself. I won't let my son use my address but when he had I told him to change it, due do insurance reasons, or I would have changed it for him. I would not take him on as a liability, even with the very large umbrella policy I have. If you think you might be liable and your assists might be at risk, then they are. You can't love your son enough for him to care about you loosing what you have worked hard for, it just doesn't connect for him right now. But you can save him from the guilt he will have if something really bad like that happens to you if he comes to his senses in the future. </p><p></p><p>Right now I would tell your son your car insurance is giving you a hard time so you need to put a change of address in with the post office for him so that they don't charge you extra for him having his official address at your home. I would simply just tell him, to keep the heat off of you, they said to do it, period. And then put a change of address for him in at the post office. Take a breath and do what you need to do to protect yourself, and do it the easiest way for you. </p><p></p><p>I don't want to say much about the situation with my son these days because I don't want to jinx things but I will say there is a distinct difference in my son's behavior that shows a conscience these days that was very lacking for many years. In the past, as he was so wrapped up in his issues, he could not see how anything affected even his most important family members. And today he is coming out of it and carries so much guilt it's such a heavy burden to him I pray he works his way to move on from it. </p><p></p><p>So maybe see your actions to protect yourself as removing a potential burden your son will have to carry in the future when/if he ever pulls his head out of his <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" />.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Deni D, post: 760994, member: 22840"] Acacia, I get your concern. Our homes should be our own well earned places of peace, and not be touched by any outside influences, not even our offspring. He's got his own place, soon to be no concern of yours, as it should be. I don't go for being deceptive, but when you have a feeling, as someone who lives aboveboard, that you might just be being deceived I think it's time to protect yourself. I won't let my son use my address but when he had I told him to change it, due do insurance reasons, or I would have changed it for him. I would not take him on as a liability, even with the very large umbrella policy I have. If you think you might be liable and your assists might be at risk, then they are. You can't love your son enough for him to care about you loosing what you have worked hard for, it just doesn't connect for him right now. But you can save him from the guilt he will have if something really bad like that happens to you if he comes to his senses in the future. Right now I would tell your son your car insurance is giving you a hard time so you need to put a change of address in with the post office for him so that they don't charge you extra for him having his official address at your home. I would simply just tell him, to keep the heat off of you, they said to do it, period. And then put a change of address for him in at the post office. Take a breath and do what you need to do to protect yourself, and do it the easiest way for you. I don't want to say much about the situation with my son these days because I don't want to jinx things but I will say there is a distinct difference in my son's behavior that shows a conscience these days that was very lacking for many years. In the past, as he was so wrapped up in his issues, he could not see how anything affected even his most important family members. And today he is coming out of it and carries so much guilt it's such a heavy burden to him I pray he works his way to move on from it. So maybe see your actions to protect yourself as removing a potential burden your son will have to carry in the future when/if he ever pulls his head out of his :censored2:. [/QUOTE]
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