It is clear this school has given up. Today I got no call, so was thinking maybe an ok day??? But I picked Q up to go to his first Occupational Therapist (OT) and Speech (where he did an awesome job by the way) and while in with the Occupational Therapist (OT) he says that he was locked out of his classroom and not all at once but eventually the principal and then he listed four others who came to check on him (can you say they are trying to gather witnesses??? or giving too much attention to something??? ) He told his Integrated Listening Systems (ILS) worker that he and another kid (the one who taught him the sex words) were into it with each other. So they took mine out. Now, they have called me for much less, why do you think they are leaving this out? I called and left a message to call me, I sent an email and no response. After the tour of the school, they said to come this week with our home psychiatric. i asked starting last Thursday....about tues or wed morning. Told them he cleared his schedule for either just for us to do that. No response. I sent a copy of another email asking for the time to be confirmed or denied so I could tell this guy... and cc'd it to the sp ed coordinator, and director. I think I might start CCing the superintendent of schools. I sent a separate email to the director of the sun program school and asked a few questions... no answers. I called there twice to ask for a confirmation of the appointments... nothing The attorney says to write an email that says (and cc it to all) we will be there Wed at 9. Thanks. Would you do that? I am worried they are pushing him over the edge because here it is different. He is doing better with all of us.. not just me so I know it is not my just not wanting to see it. I asked if I should keep him home to protect him and they said they can't tell me for obvious reasons but also that they could use it against us... I am not saying I want to pull him from school but he has a great attendance record and I can call him in "sick" for two days... he is already off Thurs and Friday. I have a conference Wed night and it is only with the teacher. If anyone else is there I am leaving. I am going to check tomorrow to see about an autism school which happens to be in our city and is for all levels of autism and more like a treatment program like what he was in when he was a small child. I am not sure if it is a medical placement or educational...no tuition is listed and no info on funding. All teachers are licensed with autism certificates. PIctures of the school show a SCHOOL not a treatment center... lots of technology and cute classes etc... ( of course they will show the cool looking stuff on All other therapists and behavioral people are licensed too. But it is not listed as a charter school so I am not sure. They do have yearly IEP meetings like charter schools so I guess I just have to see. Not especially hopeful but could be surprised. Our attorney hasn't had much to do with them which ironically means to me they are probably ok because no legal issues. Just hurting for my kid. (and frustrated with him at the same time... I wish I could just say.. HEY KID.. you are sabotaging yourself! and he would be like... OK mom, I will just throw all my anxiety over this out the window... no biggie, uggg) He says they are having a pizza party tomorrow... he hates to miss out.... he will probably screw it up and be kicked out anyway.