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<blockquote data-quote="timer lady" data-source="post: 133175" data-attributes="member: 393"><p><strong>JJJ,</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>We are in the same situation with wm - albeit voluntarily; and we still have legal guardianship over him. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>And that doesn't make it better for you, I know. I remember those first days after signing those papers - placing wm in this type of setting. Hating it, but knowing that first of all wm will get all the interventions in the world. And secondly knowing that the rest of the family would be safe. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>And that doesn't make it better for you until you process this - get past the grief & guilt. Because no matter how violent & terrifying Kanga is - she is still your Kanga. Your baby girl - a child you & husband poured love, sweat & tears into. Still your baby girl. And I'm here to tell you, she will remain so. No matter what.</strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>It's okay to focus on those positives - you need them right now. And you'll need to cry, to process this & find your place in the midst of this. Where do you fit into this placement after all is said & done? </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p><p><strong>Sending very gentle ((((hugs)))) this evening. </strong></p><p><strong></strong></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="timer lady, post: 133175, member: 393"] [B]JJJ, We are in the same situation with wm - albeit voluntarily; and we still have legal guardianship over him. And that doesn't make it better for you, I know. I remember those first days after signing those papers - placing wm in this type of setting. Hating it, but knowing that first of all wm will get all the interventions in the world. And secondly knowing that the rest of the family would be safe. And that doesn't make it better for you until you process this - get past the grief & guilt. Because no matter how violent & terrifying Kanga is - she is still your Kanga. Your baby girl - a child you & husband poured love, sweat & tears into. Still your baby girl. And I'm here to tell you, she will remain so. No matter what. It's okay to focus on those positives - you need them right now. And you'll need to cry, to process this & find your place in the midst of this. Where do you fit into this placement after all is said & done? Sending very gentle ((((hugs)))) this evening. [/B] [/QUOTE]
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