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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 659338" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>Thank you for all your kind words. I keep re reading all your comments and know that I need to take heed and try to make changes in myself. The pain is unbearable and I think this whole situation is making me very unwell. I despise myself as I must cut a pathetic figure. The more upset I get, the happier I think I make my Borderline Daughter. I try so hard not to show any emotion as she looks at me with such contempt. I have two other children, who are more kind and loving. Good friends and a good husband. What more could I want really? I hanker after a grown up loving relationship with my eldest daughter and a close relationship with my Grand daughter. My Grand daughter is the light of my life, and she loves staying overnight with us. This is why I tread so carefully. Once my youngest moves out which will be in the next six months, I have many plans to move on with my life. Some more drastic than others. Hopefully I will have more money to indulge myself a bit more, i.e. have a short break with my friends, holiday with my husband. Sell my house and downsize will help with this. I also want to get back to Yoga as this really helped me. My life is full but I can't help but wish for the impossible, I know this. After work today I will re read your posts as they are always so wise and knowledgeable. Thanks again everyone.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 659338, member: 18827"] Thank you for all your kind words. I keep re reading all your comments and know that I need to take heed and try to make changes in myself. The pain is unbearable and I think this whole situation is making me very unwell. I despise myself as I must cut a pathetic figure. The more upset I get, the happier I think I make my Borderline Daughter. I try so hard not to show any emotion as she looks at me with such contempt. I have two other children, who are more kind and loving. Good friends and a good husband. What more could I want really? I hanker after a grown up loving relationship with my eldest daughter and a close relationship with my Grand daughter. My Grand daughter is the light of my life, and she loves staying overnight with us. This is why I tread so carefully. Once my youngest moves out which will be in the next six months, I have many plans to move on with my life. Some more drastic than others. Hopefully I will have more money to indulge myself a bit more, i.e. have a short break with my friends, holiday with my husband. Sell my house and downsize will help with this. I also want to get back to Yoga as this really helped me. My life is full but I can't help but wish for the impossible, I know this. After work today I will re read your posts as they are always so wise and knowledgeable. Thanks again everyone. [/QUOTE]
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