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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 659349" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>She does these things on purpose, Lioness.</p><p></p><p>Perhaps the only person she can see as real is herself.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>I wish you would go to therapy for yourself, Lioness. Without your daughter. If you are determined to do this with her, my suggestion would be to display every bit of emotion. Cry out loud about your fear that she will use your love for your grandchildren against you. Cry right out loud about the name calling and the hurt of it.</p><p></p><p>Fight for yourself, Lioness.</p><p></p><p>State your case. We are all not only flawed but we are loved and loving human beings who forgive and who cherish and who move on. It seems to me that your daughter wants to call you bad names, and accuse you of bd things, in front of an "official" witness. Once she has done that, she will stop attending, I think. Don't let her shame you like that, Lioness.</p><p></p><p>You love her too much, I think.</p><p></p><p>Have you been seeing your friends and taking care to be gentle and kind to yourself as you go through this time, Lioness?</p><p></p><p>Gentle hugs for you, this morning.</p><p></p><p>You must feel so very tired....</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 659349, member: 17461"] She does these things on purpose, Lioness. Perhaps the only person she can see as real is herself. I wish you would go to therapy for yourself, Lioness. Without your daughter. If you are determined to do this with her, my suggestion would be to display every bit of emotion. Cry out loud about your fear that she will use your love for your grandchildren against you. Cry right out loud about the name calling and the hurt of it. Fight for yourself, Lioness. State your case. We are all not only flawed but we are loved and loving human beings who forgive and who cherish and who move on. It seems to me that your daughter wants to call you bad names, and accuse you of bd things, in front of an "official" witness. Once she has done that, she will stop attending, I think. Don't let her shame you like that, Lioness. You love her too much, I think. Have you been seeing your friends and taking care to be gentle and kind to yourself as you go through this time, Lioness? Gentle hugs for you, this morning. You must feel so very tired.... Cedar [/QUOTE]
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