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BDP daughter wants to her & I to go family therapy
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<blockquote data-quote="Lioness" data-source="post: 659363" data-attributes="member: 18827"><p>I do need to fight for myself and my fear is that she will use the session to attack me. The problem is I want a resolution and to look forward I don't think she does. I'am hoping the therapist is skilled and will keep it all under control. I have tried to see my friends but it's a struggle as when Iam in emotional turmoil I tend to stay at home and hibernate. I talk to my old school friend who is a psychologist and also a close family friend and she actually is such a level headed good person who sees both sides. She feels that if it doesn't go my Borderline daughter way she will storm out. Itsxa distinct possibility if she does I will be very saddened but use the remaining time for myself. That's if she turns up. Many times she has let people down. I remember a time when I was stranded at hospital when I was on crutches with her promising to pick me up. She never turned up. I called her and she ignored me then didn't soeak to me for 3 weeks as she didn't want to be accountable. My school friend is the only friend I have confided in as we have known each other since we were little. She's non judgemental whereas I'm too ashamed to tell my other friends as they have "good" adult children. It's my shame even though I know logically that really my daughter should be ashamed of herself not me. Thank you so much for listening to my tormented soul. I hope and pray to have the strength to move on with or without her in my life. I come from a very tough background and aren't scsred of anything. I have done a bungee, Sky dive, faced a violent mother. However losing my kids is the biggest fear. Iam vulnerable because all I have ever wanted is a loving family. Thank you Cedar.x</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lioness, post: 659363, member: 18827"] I do need to fight for myself and my fear is that she will use the session to attack me. The problem is I want a resolution and to look forward I don't think she does. I'am hoping the therapist is skilled and will keep it all under control. I have tried to see my friends but it's a struggle as when Iam in emotional turmoil I tend to stay at home and hibernate. I talk to my old school friend who is a psychologist and also a close family friend and she actually is such a level headed good person who sees both sides. She feels that if it doesn't go my Borderline daughter way she will storm out. Itsxa distinct possibility if she does I will be very saddened but use the remaining time for myself. That's if she turns up. Many times she has let people down. I remember a time when I was stranded at hospital when I was on crutches with her promising to pick me up. She never turned up. I called her and she ignored me then didn't soeak to me for 3 weeks as she didn't want to be accountable. My school friend is the only friend I have confided in as we have known each other since we were little. She's non judgemental whereas I'm too ashamed to tell my other friends as they have "good" adult children. It's my shame even though I know logically that really my daughter should be ashamed of herself not me. Thank you so much for listening to my tormented soul. I hope and pray to have the strength to move on with or without her in my life. I come from a very tough background and aren't scsred of anything. I have done a bungee, Sky dive, faced a violent mother. However losing my kids is the biggest fear. Iam vulnerable because all I have ever wanted is a loving family. Thank you Cedar.x [/QUOTE]
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