As many of you know, husband moved out of the house. He announced that he was heading out to run errands & never returned. I heard from him much later that night when he stated he wasn't returning home. Yeah, well....... He's found an apartment. However, he can't move in yet BECAUSE he cannot get furniture delivered for 6 weeks. Yeah, well, that's if you order it online or special order a piece. Wireless internet - hey bud you're in the industry. Get broadband installed & set up a wireless network This is a no brainer & I'm not in the industry. So....guess who's going out furniture shopping & talking to Comcast today? Yup, me. Because I don't want the man to move into his new home & come here to work during the day. That's not going to happen. I can make the apartment work. Enabling....damn right. Keeping husband out until/unless he gets it together ..... damn right. Don't know whether this is the right thing to do or not but I will not have him coming in here daily after working so hard to get kt settled down (a small bit) just to set things off again. Not going to happen. It's like a teenager - I'll teach the man skills to take care of himself & then he's on his own. We need to be polite & graceful to one another for the kids. I don't have to like him right now; in fact, am fairly angry. I can hide that in front of the tweedles. Leaving for errands .... not coming home. What a freaking cowardly dishonest way to do things. by the way, I'm tired of hearing of his addiction, detox, rehab, etc. We all have it hard. I'm tired of being the one to have to understand all the time. I've gotten very little understanding & support over the last 18 months with my illness from my husband. I'm on my own now to handle the tweedles & their issues until husband pulls it together. I just pray that he hangs onto his job. That's the only thing he seems to grasp in this situation. Ahhhhhh....that felt good. I needed to say this outloud.