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<blockquote data-quote="A dad" data-source="post: 671446" data-attributes="member: 18668"><p>You know its somehow sad but you change a lot for the person you love. My family is known for being lets say irresponsible and immature and messy and lets say with a incredible low respect for women. For example my own father was to put it how I described above irresponsible, immature, messy but for some reason with a lot of success in the dating world if you call having a one night stand with a woman making her pregnant and then running out from the village. Or doing that again but this time forced to marry the women then leaving her and their 1 year old daughter by running away from the village again of course at least this time he stayed 1 year and he did all that while being a alcoholic with no stable job. Then after 10 years in his 30's he meet my mother that's right I have 2 older sisters that have children almost as old as me. Now this time love was in the mix and he stayed and raised us and was here for us until he died of a cruel disease.</p><p>Love changes people for the better and he seems to love that girl so that might the thing that will finally make him be a responsible adult.</p><p>And let me tell you something me and most of my sibling where quite similar to him while not at that extent we where immature people longer then we should have been and the person we eventually fell in love with made us change or ways and yes we changed not for ourselves but for others.</p><p>Now I raised 2 great children not perfect but well adjusted and did that with a wonderful wife and a great job well for me.</p><p>So why do I say this well because I believe now your son has the right motivation for him to change it was for me and for my departed father.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="A dad, post: 671446, member: 18668"] You know its somehow sad but you change a lot for the person you love. My family is known for being lets say irresponsible and immature and messy and lets say with a incredible low respect for women. For example my own father was to put it how I described above irresponsible, immature, messy but for some reason with a lot of success in the dating world if you call having a one night stand with a woman making her pregnant and then running out from the village. Or doing that again but this time forced to marry the women then leaving her and their 1 year old daughter by running away from the village again of course at least this time he stayed 1 year and he did all that while being a alcoholic with no stable job. Then after 10 years in his 30's he meet my mother that's right I have 2 older sisters that have children almost as old as me. Now this time love was in the mix and he stayed and raised us and was here for us until he died of a cruel disease. Love changes people for the better and he seems to love that girl so that might the thing that will finally make him be a responsible adult. And let me tell you something me and most of my sibling where quite similar to him while not at that extent we where immature people longer then we should have been and the person we eventually fell in love with made us change or ways and yes we changed not for ourselves but for others. Now I raised 2 great children not perfect but well adjusted and did that with a wonderful wife and a great job well for me. So why do I say this well because I believe now your son has the right motivation for him to change it was for me and for my departed father. [/QUOTE]
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