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<blockquote data-quote="AppleCori" data-source="post: 611145" data-attributes="member: 16024"><p>Hi Kjs,</p><p></p><p>We are kinda in the same boat.</p><p></p><p>21yo difficult child stepson has a 7 month old. He lived with his mom, got kicked out, he and his girlfriend rented a room from her friend, difficult child lost his job after 4-5 weeks (never keeps one for long) girlfriend and friend got tired of supporting his lazy self and kicked him out and we made to BAD decision to let him back in here about six weeks ago (we had kicked him out about a year and a half ago and then he stayed with various friends and got kicked out of all of their houses then went to his mom's where he made life miserable for her and his brother before finally moving in with his girlfriend).</p><p></p><p>Now he is making our lives miserable, mostly in passive-aggressive ways. </p><p></p><p>I'm so sorry you are in the same place. </p><p></p><p>All this to say, I'm not sure that the young couple and the baby living together under anyone else's roof is a good idea anyway. We wouldn't allow it, difficult child mom wouldn't allow it, and girlfriend's parents wouldn't allow it either. A responsible, non-difficult child couple may work out fine but if one is a difficult child, it's just asking for more trouble.</p><p></p><p>Our difficult child just got a job and dad is going to keep his paychecks for him and when he gets some $ saved up, he will be leaving. I can't live like this. </p><p></p><p>It seems, with our difficult child, the more nice things you do for him, the more you help him, the more entitled he feels to even more. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, sorry that you are here, but glad that at least we have a place to vent, commiserate, and sometimes cry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="AppleCori, post: 611145, member: 16024"] Hi Kjs, We are kinda in the same boat. 21yo difficult child stepson has a 7 month old. He lived with his mom, got kicked out, he and his girlfriend rented a room from her friend, difficult child lost his job after 4-5 weeks (never keeps one for long) girlfriend and friend got tired of supporting his lazy self and kicked him out and we made to BAD decision to let him back in here about six weeks ago (we had kicked him out about a year and a half ago and then he stayed with various friends and got kicked out of all of their houses then went to his mom's where he made life miserable for her and his brother before finally moving in with his girlfriend). Now he is making our lives miserable, mostly in passive-aggressive ways. I'm so sorry you are in the same place. All this to say, I'm not sure that the young couple and the baby living together under anyone else's roof is a good idea anyway. We wouldn't allow it, difficult child mom wouldn't allow it, and girlfriend's parents wouldn't allow it either. A responsible, non-difficult child couple may work out fine but if one is a difficult child, it's just asking for more trouble. Our difficult child just got a job and dad is going to keep his paychecks for him and when he gets some $ saved up, he will be leaving. I can't live like this. It seems, with our difficult child, the more nice things you do for him, the more you help him, the more entitled he feels to even more. Anyway, sorry that you are here, but glad that at least we have a place to vent, commiserate, and sometimes cry. [/QUOTE]
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