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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 602009" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>My advice?</p><p></p><p>Leave.You haven't even known her a year and you moved in? You didn't have the whole picture and I doubt she did either. If you "can't help treating him bad" for ANY reason, you shouldn't be around him. He doesn't need you there treating him bad. You are harming him when you do that. He is a child who is possibly on the spectrum. You're an adult who is supposed to be able to control yourself.</p><p></p><p>You don't understand the boy and he is not acting out for his father. That could be because his father doesn't have him as often or it could be that he doesn't like Mom with another man and in my opinion the kid comes first. You are not related to this boy. by the way, you DO NOT know how much he can control it. You are making assumptions that he is out to make your life miserable. Do you really think his mother will choose you over him? If things remain bad with Mom, maybe Dad will step in and file for custody. You need to behave yourself like an adult or get out. Do you think beating him is a good way to make him behave? Are you sure his father beats him? It is dangerous to make allegations that you can not prove. This is a special needs child who needs more understanding than most kids and looks like everyone is failing him.</p><p></p><p>Any man who ""gets better and treats him bad"...and this isn't even his child is harming the kid. I really hope you don't stick around. I think I remember you from before and you were pulling this immature stuff back then too. Looks like nothing has changed.</p><p></p><p>by the way, nothing about this child is "up to you." You have no legal connection to him. If you touch him you will be in deep trouble so don't even think about it. What kind of encouragement do you want? This is a special needs child who will be challenging perhaps forever. My best encouragement to you is to find somebody without any kids. You don't sound very happy and you will never be in control of this situation.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Sir, I think I remember you from last time and it was the same song and dance. Is this the woman you CAN'T leave because...I forgot what the reason was. </p><p></p><p>The only person I feel sorry for here is the child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 602009, member: 1550"] My advice? Leave.You haven't even known her a year and you moved in? You didn't have the whole picture and I doubt she did either. If you "can't help treating him bad" for ANY reason, you shouldn't be around him. He doesn't need you there treating him bad. You are harming him when you do that. He is a child who is possibly on the spectrum. You're an adult who is supposed to be able to control yourself. You don't understand the boy and he is not acting out for his father. That could be because his father doesn't have him as often or it could be that he doesn't like Mom with another man and in my opinion the kid comes first. You are not related to this boy. by the way, you DO NOT know how much he can control it. You are making assumptions that he is out to make your life miserable. Do you really think his mother will choose you over him? If things remain bad with Mom, maybe Dad will step in and file for custody. You need to behave yourself like an adult or get out. Do you think beating him is a good way to make him behave? Are you sure his father beats him? It is dangerous to make allegations that you can not prove. This is a special needs child who needs more understanding than most kids and looks like everyone is failing him. Any man who ""gets better and treats him bad"...and this isn't even his child is harming the kid. I really hope you don't stick around. I think I remember you from before and you were pulling this immature stuff back then too. Looks like nothing has changed. by the way, nothing about this child is "up to you." You have no legal connection to him. If you touch him you will be in deep trouble so don't even think about it. What kind of encouragement do you want? This is a special needs child who will be challenging perhaps forever. My best encouragement to you is to find somebody without any kids. You don't sound very happy and you will never be in control of this situation. Sir, I think I remember you from last time and it was the same song and dance. Is this the woman you CAN'T leave because...I forgot what the reason was. The only person I feel sorry for here is the child. [/QUOTE]
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