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<blockquote data-quote="gottaloveem" data-source="post: 128264" data-attributes="member: 1953"><p>>>> I would let your wife handle all legal issues regarding this next court date, in fact, let her handle it all.>>></p><p></p><p>This is what I said in my first response, and when I say it all, I mean all of it, just as others are suggesting. Next time there is an issue with McWeedy, kiss her on the forehead tell her you love her and that you are confident that she will make the right choice. Remind her that whatever you decide isn't the right decision by her and you will stand by her as she chooses what to do.</p><p></p><p>I definitely support the idea of showering Dancer and Sarge with all of your love and attention. Be the father to them that you are missing out with McWeedy. McWeedy doesn't want your love and attention right now. I remember once looking at my younger son while we were in the midst of problems with Alex realizing that I pretty much ignored my younger son, all while I was trying to fix somebody that didn't want my help.</p><p></p><p>I believe you when you are saying that his drug tests come back clean. However, his behavior is so much like kids that are using. Re-read the post in the T/SA archives, "34 signs your teen is using drugs"</p><p><a href="http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6231" target="_blank">http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6231</a></p><p>I'm not trying to insist he is on drugs, but he acts like he is. Like you said he may be hanging on to that lifestyle so he can fall right back into it. Truthfully, even if he is using there isn't much more you can do.</p><p></p><p>Hopefully, McWeedy sees the light soon and quits testing his luck and fate.</p><p></p><p>Take Care,</p><p>And please, go enjoy being dad to your other two. They need and want you.</p><p></p><p>Lia</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gottaloveem, post: 128264, member: 1953"] >>> I would let your wife handle all legal issues regarding this next court date, in fact, let her handle it all.>>> This is what I said in my first response, and when I say it all, I mean all of it, just as others are suggesting. Next time there is an issue with McWeedy, kiss her on the forehead tell her you love her and that you are confident that she will make the right choice. Remind her that whatever you decide isn't the right decision by her and you will stand by her as she chooses what to do. I definitely support the idea of showering Dancer and Sarge with all of your love and attention. Be the father to them that you are missing out with McWeedy. McWeedy doesn't want your love and attention right now. I remember once looking at my younger son while we were in the midst of problems with Alex realizing that I pretty much ignored my younger son, all while I was trying to fix somebody that didn't want my help. I believe you when you are saying that his drug tests come back clean. However, his behavior is so much like kids that are using. Re-read the post in the T/SA archives, "34 signs your teen is using drugs" [URL]http://www.conductdisorders.com/forum/showthread.php?t=6231[/URL] I'm not trying to insist he is on drugs, but he acts like he is. Like you said he may be hanging on to that lifestyle so he can fall right back into it. Truthfully, even if he is using there isn't much more you can do. Hopefully, McWeedy sees the light soon and quits testing his luck and fate. Take Care, And please, go enjoy being dad to your other two. They need and want you. Lia [/QUOTE]
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