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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 128278" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>Mikey,</p><p> </p><p>the situation being what it is, what would happen if you just walked away from wife when she started telling you about everything? She has done the "flamethrower" and you have taken it. What happens if you just go to the bathroom, for a LOOOONG time (bubble baths or aromatherapy baths are good for guys too, ya know!).</p><p> </p><p>Let her work it out. She doesn't want you to "fix" it. she doesn't seem to want your help with any of it. So let her do it. </p><p> </p><p>As I have said before, GO TO AL-ANON. there will be others there with enabling spouses. They will have been there done that and will help you through this.</p><p> </p><p>McWeedy probably won't get much in the way of punishment from the courts, and his PO may not even notice. </p><p> </p><p>Just let it be.</p><p> </p><p>What have YOU always wanted to learn to do? Take a class, find a hobby. I think that this would be healthy for you. there is NADA you can do to help wife or McWeedy until THEY want help. You can only deal with YOU, and it seems not even Dancer.</p><p> </p><p>So, find something else to occupy your mind. When she starts, start talking about YOUR new hobby, your old hobby you started again, whether to paint the house.</p><p> </p><p>Just SOMETHING to make MIKEY healthier.</p><p> </p><p>I am sorry McW is such an idiot, and that wife is so strongly set on enabling.</p><p> </p><p>Get the book boundaries, by Cloud and townsend. REad it and DO IT. You will be healthier.</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 128278, member: 1233"] Mikey, the situation being what it is, what would happen if you just walked away from wife when she started telling you about everything? She has done the "flamethrower" and you have taken it. What happens if you just go to the bathroom, for a LOOOONG time (bubble baths or aromatherapy baths are good for guys too, ya know!). Let her work it out. She doesn't want you to "fix" it. she doesn't seem to want your help with any of it. So let her do it. As I have said before, GO TO AL-ANON. there will be others there with enabling spouses. They will have been there done that and will help you through this. McWeedy probably won't get much in the way of punishment from the courts, and his PO may not even notice. Just let it be. What have YOU always wanted to learn to do? Take a class, find a hobby. I think that this would be healthy for you. there is NADA you can do to help wife or McWeedy until THEY want help. You can only deal with YOU, and it seems not even Dancer. So, find something else to occupy your mind. When she starts, start talking about YOUR new hobby, your old hobby you started again, whether to paint the house. Just SOMETHING to make MIKEY healthier. I am sorry McW is such an idiot, and that wife is so strongly set on enabling. Get the book boundaries, by Cloud and townsend. REad it and DO IT. You will be healthier. Susie [/QUOTE]
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