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<blockquote data-quote="Ropefree" data-source="post: 249139" data-attributes="member: 6271"><p>In the last round when my son was breaking the rules under the influence of his 'friends' and the conselor came to my home and say what my son was behaving like:</p><p></p><p>Don't work so hard. let him do it. Take his priviledges. you have to fed him, but he doesn't have to like it. You have to cloth him, but he doesn't have to like them, either. Call the police. Tell them he is out of parental control. Tell the parents (who let the kids hang out unsupervised) that he is to come directly home if he comes there. If he is there, call the police.</p><p></p><p>I grounded him, I let him write the rules and he did know them. I had him write down what he did that caused him to be grounded. I had him write why what he did hurt himself and others. I had him write what he would do differently now and in the future. What his chores are and when they were to be completed.</p><p></p><p>I linked all his priviledges to his grades, being home by curfew, and getting up in the morning for school.</p><p></p><p>It was the difference between night and day around here.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Ropefree, post: 249139, member: 6271"] In the last round when my son was breaking the rules under the influence of his 'friends' and the conselor came to my home and say what my son was behaving like: Don't work so hard. let him do it. Take his priviledges. you have to fed him, but he doesn't have to like it. You have to cloth him, but he doesn't have to like them, either. Call the police. Tell them he is out of parental control. Tell the parents (who let the kids hang out unsupervised) that he is to come directly home if he comes there. If he is there, call the police. I grounded him, I let him write the rules and he did know them. I had him write down what he did that caused him to be grounded. I had him write why what he did hurt himself and others. I had him write what he would do differently now and in the future. What his chores are and when they were to be completed. I linked all his priviledges to his grades, being home by curfew, and getting up in the morning for school. It was the difference between night and day around here. [/QUOTE]
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