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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 148030" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I agree with tm, that your thinking is very wise. I also agree with you that I would rather have my child hate me for protecting her too much than for not protecting her enough.</p><p> </p><p>Your instincts are screaming at you, it is very clear. Did he adopt her, or get any kind of court ordered custody? I am not at all sure how it works when a spouse dies, the surviving spouse remarries and then divorces.</p><p> </p><p>I strongly suggest you go to a domestic violence facility for counselling through this. S2BX is controlling and manipulative and abusive, based JUST on this thread. PLEASE do not leave her with him, no matter how she begs, bargains, pleads, or promises.</p><p> </p><p>It is so dang hard to be a mom. It is even harder to be a GOOD one, and following instincts is one of the best ways to be a GOOD MOM.</p><p> </p><p>Gentle hugs and support,</p><p> </p><p>Susie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 148030, member: 1233"] I agree with tm, that your thinking is very wise. I also agree with you that I would rather have my child hate me for protecting her too much than for not protecting her enough. Your instincts are screaming at you, it is very clear. Did he adopt her, or get any kind of court ordered custody? I am not at all sure how it works when a spouse dies, the surviving spouse remarries and then divorces. I strongly suggest you go to a domestic violence facility for counselling through this. S2BX is controlling and manipulative and abusive, based JUST on this thread. PLEASE do not leave her with him, no matter how she begs, bargains, pleads, or promises. It is so dang hard to be a mom. It is even harder to be a GOOD one, and following instincts is one of the best ways to be a GOOD MOM. Gentle hugs and support, Susie [/QUOTE]
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