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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 609855" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>If he contacts you and asks or accuses, I would be honest with him. Otherwise, I would try to hold my tongue. I would also start telling difficult child tht she should turn to her bio for whatever you are helping her with because clearly he wants to do all these things for her. in my opinion it won't take long before Disney Daddy turns away or wises up. Or they are too much alike and he will enjoy her fantasy and live there with her. </p><p></p><p>Eventually every fantasy is confronted with reality and crumbles. Or explodes. </p><p></p><p>If you tell him the realities, it will only be seen as meddling and as sabotage by difficult child. You cannot win anything positive by presenting reality to him before he is ready to see it. Often it will only lengthen, deepen and strengthen the river of denial.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 609855, member: 1233"] If he contacts you and asks or accuses, I would be honest with him. Otherwise, I would try to hold my tongue. I would also start telling difficult child tht she should turn to her bio for whatever you are helping her with because clearly he wants to do all these things for her. in my opinion it won't take long before Disney Daddy turns away or wises up. Or they are too much alike and he will enjoy her fantasy and live there with her. Eventually every fantasy is confronted with reality and crumbles. Or explodes. If you tell him the realities, it will only be seen as meddling and as sabotage by difficult child. You cannot win anything positive by presenting reality to him before he is ready to see it. Often it will only lengthen, deepen and strengthen the river of denial. [/QUOTE]
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