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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 102908" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>(((((((((((((kitty)))))))))))))</p><p></p><p>I am so sorry for your hurting mommy heart. </p><p></p><p>Others have said it. You need to take care of you. Detach from the situation with your son because there is nothing that you can do to change it. There is nothing that you did to CAUSE it, either. He is responsible for his own choices. Try not to look at it as "was life so horrible here that he had to go there". Remember, he went there fresh out of the hospital. They got him at a weak moment in his life and possibly promised him the moon. You cannot change his mind, and if you try, he may resent you more. </p><p></p><p>Detach. Grieve. It seems like the exact opposite of what feels right. But it is what is going to make YOU feel better. You have a life out there and you are never going to live it if you keep wondering what if.</p><p></p><p>Keep posting here. We'll be your strength along the way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 102908, member: 3647"] (((((((((((((kitty))))))))))))) I am so sorry for your hurting mommy heart. Others have said it. You need to take care of you. Detach from the situation with your son because there is nothing that you can do to change it. There is nothing that you did to CAUSE it, either. He is responsible for his own choices. Try not to look at it as "was life so horrible here that he had to go there". Remember, he went there fresh out of the hospital. They got him at a weak moment in his life and possibly promised him the moon. You cannot change his mind, and if you try, he may resent you more. Detach. Grieve. It seems like the exact opposite of what feels right. But it is what is going to make YOU feel better. You have a life out there and you are never going to live it if you keep wondering what if. Keep posting here. We'll be your strength along the way. [/QUOTE]
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