hi
I hope everyone is well and difficult child's are happy and we all have a really Calm.... weekend.
So, has anyone tried board games with their difficult child's to teach them impulse control? I play board games with difficult child maybe a few times a week. Yet to be quite honest it isn't until now I have grabbed the concept of trying to teach her impulse control through using the board games.
She often gets frustrated, has a hard time sticking to rules, has a hard time waiting her turn, etc. i'Tourette's Syndrome overall chaos at times. It is a hard concept all of these things in general, surprise surprise..........
I often walk her through it slowly, yet now i've learned to go really slowly and break the entire thing down step by step and try to teach her as the anger hits how to recognize it (the tightening of her muscles, etc.) before she blows and gets verbally aggressive and says things she doesnt' mean etc. we all know how that goes.
So, it's def not easy and it's def going to take a while. Yet has anyone else taken this approach, the break the game down approach talk about muscles tightening how it feels, how to recognize the anger before acting on it? If so, how did it go? any success???
thanks, was just wondering......
I hope everyone is well and difficult child's are happy and we all have a really Calm.... weekend.
So, has anyone tried board games with their difficult child's to teach them impulse control? I play board games with difficult child maybe a few times a week. Yet to be quite honest it isn't until now I have grabbed the concept of trying to teach her impulse control through using the board games.
She often gets frustrated, has a hard time sticking to rules, has a hard time waiting her turn, etc. i'Tourette's Syndrome overall chaos at times. It is a hard concept all of these things in general, surprise surprise..........
I often walk her through it slowly, yet now i've learned to go really slowly and break the entire thing down step by step and try to teach her as the anger hits how to recognize it (the tightening of her muscles, etc.) before she blows and gets verbally aggressive and says things she doesnt' mean etc. we all know how that goes.
So, it's def not easy and it's def going to take a while. Yet has anyone else taken this approach, the break the game down approach talk about muscles tightening how it feels, how to recognize the anger before acting on it? If so, how did it go? any success???
thanks, was just wondering......