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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 145594" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>Well I am sorry to report that i think he is up to his old tricks. I know many will say I told you so. So I understand but now I need support to get through this. He is still at the place, I think, but has said he was going to leave because he just cant do that program. He says it is a mission and they talk about God all the time. He says could we give him a chance to find another place that means he walks the streets because we said he couldnt come home! Well we said no - he could go back to jail and that we should have left him there anyway - he has already been to the emergency room and gotten antibiotic for his tooth and something for his nerves because he had a panic attack! They wont let any narcotics in that place. It is actually a stepping stone to the other long term place that he said he probably couldnt do - he would rather be somewhere secular - my husband said to make it work - right now he just needs to want to do good but he doesnt actually like the place where he is - he already knew about it through the ministry man - but you never know - now what is my role? I am living in some kind of fear it seems - I feel there is a knot in my stomach and I feel it is some of our fault because we thought it just might be ready - I know my husband wanted to think it because he NEVER does anything like that - the first night he was there he said he liked it and he thought he could work the program the next night was all down hill - I dont know if he is still there or not</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 145594, member: 3948"] Well I am sorry to report that i think he is up to his old tricks. I know many will say I told you so. So I understand but now I need support to get through this. He is still at the place, I think, but has said he was going to leave because he just cant do that program. He says it is a mission and they talk about God all the time. He says could we give him a chance to find another place that means he walks the streets because we said he couldnt come home! Well we said no - he could go back to jail and that we should have left him there anyway - he has already been to the emergency room and gotten antibiotic for his tooth and something for his nerves because he had a panic attack! They wont let any narcotics in that place. It is actually a stepping stone to the other long term place that he said he probably couldnt do - he would rather be somewhere secular - my husband said to make it work - right now he just needs to want to do good but he doesnt actually like the place where he is - he already knew about it through the ministry man - but you never know - now what is my role? I am living in some kind of fear it seems - I feel there is a knot in my stomach and I feel it is some of our fault because we thought it just might be ready - I know my husband wanted to think it because he NEVER does anything like that - the first night he was there he said he liked it and he thought he could work the program the next night was all down hill - I dont know if he is still there or not [/QUOTE]
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