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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 145601" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Oh, Susan. No "I told you so". Just I am sorry, and here is a big hug. </p><p></p><p>OK, the hug is over. Now, do nothing. You can't do anything. Let the cards fall where they may. Think it through:</p><p></p><p>In order for him to have been ready to accept and work that program, he needed to to have hit his bottom.</p><p></p><p>He obviously was not at his bottom.</p><p></p><p>You guys bailing him out of jail and putting him somewhere that made him uncomfortable did not bring him to his bottom.</p><p></p><p>If you save him, he still will not hi bottom.</p><p></p><p></p><p>Let him fall on his face. He has GOT to be responsible for what he did. Go to AlAnon and see if anyone there tells you any different.</p><p></p><p>Did you see a doctor yet about changing your medications?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 145601, member: 3647"] Oh, Susan. No "I told you so". Just I am sorry, and here is a big hug. OK, the hug is over. Now, do nothing. You can't do anything. Let the cards fall where they may. Think it through: In order for him to have been ready to accept and work that program, he needed to to have hit his bottom. He obviously was not at his bottom. You guys bailing him out of jail and putting him somewhere that made him uncomfortable did not bring him to his bottom. If you save him, he still will not hi bottom. Let him fall on his face. He has GOT to be responsible for what he did. Go to AlAnon and see if anyone there tells you any different. Did you see a doctor yet about changing your medications? [/QUOTE]
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