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Bonding out - scary
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<blockquote data-quote="meowbunny" data-source="post: 145635" data-attributes="member: 3626"><p>Hon, I am so sorry for your mommy heart. You did what you thought was right for him and for you. You did what every mother does -- try to save her child from him/herself. That is all any of us can ever do. Another one sending nothing but hugs your way. </p><p> </p><p>The others are right. As hard as it is, as painful as it is, as frightening as it is, sometimes the best thing we can do for our children is let them find their botom. </p><p> </p><p>At this point, the best you can do is tell him he needs to work this out on his own and maybe even reinforce it with something to the effect to contact you when he has been completely clean (prescription and non-prescription) for at least a certain period of time but not before.</p><p> </p><p>We're here for you. To hold you as you cry. To hug you when you hurt. We'll even try to stop when we think you're making a wrong decision. What we won't do is condemn you if that decision doesn't work out. Instead, we'll understand you did what was right for you and comfort you as best we can.</p><p> </p><p>((((((((((SUSAN))))))))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="meowbunny, post: 145635, member: 3626"] Hon, I am so sorry for your mommy heart. You did what you thought was right for him and for you. You did what every mother does -- try to save her child from him/herself. That is all any of us can ever do. Another one sending nothing but hugs your way. The others are right. As hard as it is, as painful as it is, as frightening as it is, sometimes the best thing we can do for our children is let them find their botom. At this point, the best you can do is tell him he needs to work this out on his own and maybe even reinforce it with something to the effect to contact you when he has been completely clean (prescription and non-prescription) for at least a certain period of time but not before. We're here for you. To hold you as you cry. To hug you when you hurt. We'll even try to stop when we think you're making a wrong decision. What we won't do is condemn you if that decision doesn't work out. Instead, we'll understand you did what was right for you and comfort you as best we can. ((((((((((SUSAN)))))))))) [/QUOTE]
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