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<blockquote data-quote="standswithcourage" data-source="post: 145716" data-attributes="member: 3948"><p>THANKS!! I will go to Alanon and take my medications!!! I have strong support with you guys and my friends. I appreciate it but I just want to beat my head against a wall! It seems I know better. My husband was the one, not his fault though, that headed this up and he is much stronger to tell our difficult child that when and if you leave you are own your own - I will revoke your bond and you will go back to jail. It seems all the fuss - I really dont need - I would just have soon l et him sit in jail and it would have been easier on me emotionally but I really dont know what the judge would have done with him - nor do I know now if he bails!</p><p>We cant make our children want to live - or live the way we want them to - I have to realize that his way of wanting to live is not the way I want him too!</p><p>Because I love him I dont want anything toh appen to him. Did anyone watch Oprah the other day? That man that wrote the book Beautiful Boy and his son were on there. It is nice to see someone that actually survived. Ya'll keep praying for me and husband and difficult child and easy child son! I dont want to live in fear of him showing up at my door. That is weird - to live in fear of your own son.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="standswithcourage, post: 145716, member: 3948"] THANKS!! I will go to Alanon and take my medications!!! I have strong support with you guys and my friends. I appreciate it but I just want to beat my head against a wall! It seems I know better. My husband was the one, not his fault though, that headed this up and he is much stronger to tell our difficult child that when and if you leave you are own your own - I will revoke your bond and you will go back to jail. It seems all the fuss - I really dont need - I would just have soon l et him sit in jail and it would have been easier on me emotionally but I really dont know what the judge would have done with him - nor do I know now if he bails! We cant make our children want to live - or live the way we want them to - I have to realize that his way of wanting to live is not the way I want him too! Because I love him I dont want anything toh appen to him. Did anyone watch Oprah the other day? That man that wrote the book Beautiful Boy and his son were on there. It is nice to see someone that actually survived. Ya'll keep praying for me and husband and difficult child and easy child son! I dont want to live in fear of him showing up at my door. That is weird - to live in fear of your own son. [/QUOTE]
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