My daughter has absolutely no boundaries, never has, and she is incredibly inappropriate. When she was little it wasn't so bad, but the older she got the more inappropriate it became. At three years old people would just laugh it off, it was kind of cute back then. One time we were on a bus and she was pulling the woman's hair who was sitting in front of us. The woman laughed, thought it was cute, after all she was only a little thing. As she got older her lack of boundaries became less and less "cute". When she was about 14 I took her to the dentist and she said to him, "you must be rich, how much money do you make", I wanted to die! She has done things like this all her life, however now it is off the charts inappropriate. An old friend and her 20 year old son stopped by not too long ago, she said to the young man, "hey are you gay, you look gay". Can you say, MORTIFIED!!! When I explained that that was not appropriate to ask she just couldn't understand why! "What's the big deal Mom, you are so lame, I just wanted to know". She walks around the house in very skimpy clothes. I have to fight with her to change her outfit all the time. She is very sexual and very provocative. Her boobs are always on the verge of coming out of her shirt, clothes as tight as can be and she walks around the house as if she is working the corner. She sends nude pics of herself to strange men (and women) who she meets on the computer. She has sent a fully nude picture of herself to her step father and her bio father, by accident! And when we freaked out about it she couldn't understand what the big deal was. "It was an accident, calm the f**k down". She tells us things that she absolutely shouldn't. She tells my husband, myself, my sister and my mother all sorts of things that we do not want to hear! Things that are probably not even appropriate to say here, so I will leave them to your imagination. I'm 43 and SHE is giving ME sex ed! She says things in front of her younger brother that he should not be learning about. She is all about being sexy and looking good. She wants to be a porn star, anything that has to do with sex, count her in! It is heartbreaking to watch! I know she is craving attention, and this is how she THINKS she can get it. I think she feels like she has no choice, being sexy is the only thing that she has going for her. She is def hypersexual. We, of course, have tried to explain to her that her worth should not come from sex or her appearance, but in one ear, out the other. My husband is so uncomfortable around her. She looks at him like he's her "real father", wants affection from him, but he's very reluctant to show her any because she's usually dressed inappropriately and always talking about sex. And when I say , always talking about sex, I mean she gives us details about her personal experiences! We have told her time and time again that she should not be telling us things like that, her response is usually something like, "what the f**k is the big deal, I'm an adult, I should be able to tell you this". NOT!!!! WILL THIS EVER CHANGE??? I know that her lack of boundaries is directly related to her illness, but will she EVER develop natural boundaries? We have tried, over the years, to get her to see that she needs to recognize boundaries, but of course to no avail. I can't imagine how she could function in a work setting! She's 22 and at some point has to create a life for herself, how on earth is she going to function in the real world! I know that DBT therapy would be appropriate for her as she is a Borderline, does it help with boundaries?