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<blockquote data-quote="Nikimoto" data-source="post: 650579" data-attributes="member: 18791"><p>I like what you quoted here, and as an atheist, unfortunately the religious slant would be turnoff as MWM suggested. The wisdom is wisdom whether presented in a secular or faith based view, and truly resounds with the issues we suffered until Evan moved out. Our ridiculous rules and unreasonable boundaries shifted him out of the comfort zone he wished for us to pander to. We just could not let our lives revolve around the police state he was instigating for us. Or we could have been stoners and not given a <img src="/community/styles/default/xenforo/smilies/2012/censored2.gif" class="smilie" loading="lazy" alt=":censored2:" title="censored2 :censored2:" data-shortname=":censored2:" /> about anything he wanted, but he may have gone without food or clean laundry as he lied about in reality.</p><p>I know I still react in anger, and it's hard, so hard. I grew up with the negligent parents who did nothing for me and plenty to me, even using me for welfare money to smoke and drink off my back, no clean laundry and no consistent food, yet he appreciates nothing. Not the fact I gave him everything I never had, I gave him stuff I wanted him to have, even took him places and cared for all his medical needs. He was entitled to all. Of that and more, we were just supposed to conscript ourselves to those demands i order to earn his respect and become reasonable parents.</p><p>Madness.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nikimoto, post: 650579, member: 18791"] I like what you quoted here, and as an atheist, unfortunately the religious slant would be turnoff as MWM suggested. The wisdom is wisdom whether presented in a secular or faith based view, and truly resounds with the issues we suffered until Evan moved out. Our ridiculous rules and unreasonable boundaries shifted him out of the comfort zone he wished for us to pander to. We just could not let our lives revolve around the police state he was instigating for us. Or we could have been stoners and not given a :censored2: about anything he wanted, but he may have gone without food or clean laundry as he lied about in reality. I know I still react in anger, and it's hard, so hard. I grew up with the negligent parents who did nothing for me and plenty to me, even using me for welfare money to smoke and drink off my back, no clean laundry and no consistent food, yet he appreciates nothing. Not the fact I gave him everything I never had, I gave him stuff I wanted him to have, even took him places and cared for all his medical needs. He was entitled to all. Of that and more, we were just supposed to conscript ourselves to those demands i order to earn his respect and become reasonable parents. Madness. [/QUOTE]
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