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<blockquote data-quote="DDD" data-source="post: 430663" data-attributes="member: 35"><p>You all are in a bad position if there is inadequate communication with Ex. Other than appropriate medications the most important tool is consistent care. If you don't know how his daily schedule goes there is no way you can adapt to bring him peace.</p><p> </p><p>Is there any chance that your husband and Ex could have a joint meeting with his psychiatrist and discuss the concerns with-o it turning into a high stress situation? Or...is there any way that your husband could meet SS and Ex at an evaluation center for the joint benefit of the child?</p><p> </p><p>Does husband get copies of school reports? Dr's reports? Or are you all trying to wing it? In my long (lost) post I addressed alot of subjects. The need to eat is, in my humble opinion, huge. How is that handled at his Mom's? </p><p> </p><p>It seems like your husband is going to have to be more assertive in using his parental rights for the sake of his child's future. The frustration of being a step parent is huge but basically you are powerless except as a stimuli for getting your husband to take affirmative action. I'm sorry you are in this position but based on years of observation I think SS's entire future is at stake. Yeah, I know it sounds dramatic but I have seen it many times and it is an ugly picture. Sending supportive hugs.DDD</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="DDD, post: 430663, member: 35"] You all are in a bad position if there is inadequate communication with Ex. Other than appropriate medications the most important tool is consistent care. If you don't know how his daily schedule goes there is no way you can adapt to bring him peace. Is there any chance that your husband and Ex could have a joint meeting with his psychiatrist and discuss the concerns with-o it turning into a high stress situation? Or...is there any way that your husband could meet SS and Ex at an evaluation center for the joint benefit of the child? Does husband get copies of school reports? Dr's reports? Or are you all trying to wing it? In my long (lost) post I addressed alot of subjects. The need to eat is, in my humble opinion, huge. How is that handled at his Mom's? It seems like your husband is going to have to be more assertive in using his parental rights for the sake of his child's future. The frustration of being a step parent is huge but basically you are powerless except as a stimuli for getting your husband to take affirmative action. I'm sorry you are in this position but based on years of observation I think SS's entire future is at stake. Yeah, I know it sounds dramatic but I have seen it many times and it is an ugly picture. Sending supportive hugs.DDD [/QUOTE]
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