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<blockquote data-quote="PatriotsGirl" data-source="post: 382893"><p>This is why I ask for opinions here. Thank you. You are all right on. I was assuming she would be sober and ready for a new life when she got out of the program. The car wouldn't have been road ready. She would have to work and earn that. She doesn't even have a driver's license, yet. So, it would take a bit of work on her part to actually be able to <em>use</em> the car. I thought it could be a carrot. A goal to work towards. But, I should know by now to never assume anything when it comes to difficult children. </p><p> </p><p>My only issue is that she absolutely will not get in front of the judge until early next year. Her PO already told me that much. Quite frankly, my fear is she will be dead by then. We are not talking about pot use here. So, I am a bit desperate to once again "save" difficult child. I know. This is part of the codependancy issue. But I know I could never live with myself if she were to OD and I didn't try absolutely everything I could to help her. </p><p> </p><p>Is there any way I can get her in there with out having to wait for court? Anything that has worked for any one?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="PatriotsGirl, post: 382893"] This is why I ask for opinions here. Thank you. You are all right on. I was assuming she would be sober and ready for a new life when she got out of the program. The car wouldn't have been road ready. She would have to work and earn that. She doesn't even have a driver's license, yet. So, it would take a bit of work on her part to actually be able to [I]use[/I] the car. I thought it could be a carrot. A goal to work towards. But, I should know by now to never assume anything when it comes to difficult children. My only issue is that she absolutely will not get in front of the judge until early next year. Her PO already told me that much. Quite frankly, my fear is she will be dead by then. We are not talking about pot use here. So, I am a bit desperate to once again "save" difficult child. I know. This is part of the codependancy issue. But I know I could never live with myself if she were to OD and I didn't try absolutely everything I could to help her. Is there any way I can get her in there with out having to wait for court? Anything that has worked for any one? [/QUOTE]
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