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<blockquote data-quote="Lil" data-source="post: 669110" data-attributes="member: 17309"><p>Short and simple seems to be best. "I'm sorry this has happened." "I'm sure things will work out." "I love you."</p><p> </p><p>You and your husband are right to do what you have done. You cannot live with someone who steals from you. Would you let anyone else in your house when you know they steal from you? I personally see nothing wrong with telling him that. "No. I love you but I can't trust you. You know what you did. Trust takes time to rebuild. Maybe, in time, things will change." YOU are the injured party here...not him.</p><p> </p><p>That doesn't mean you have to cut him off (though money MUST be cut off when you know it might go to drugs) but you can take him to lunch. You can tell him you love him.</p><p> </p><p>Sorry I'm not better at this today. Too much on my own mind. But I understand. They are so good at making US feel like WE'VE done something wrong. But you have not. Remember that.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Lil, post: 669110, member: 17309"] Short and simple seems to be best. "I'm sorry this has happened." "I'm sure things will work out." "I love you." You and your husband are right to do what you have done. You cannot live with someone who steals from you. Would you let anyone else in your house when you know they steal from you? I personally see nothing wrong with telling him that. "No. I love you but I can't trust you. You know what you did. Trust takes time to rebuild. Maybe, in time, things will change." YOU are the injured party here...not him. That doesn't mean you have to cut him off (though money MUST be cut off when you know it might go to drugs) but you can take him to lunch. You can tell him you love him. Sorry I'm not better at this today. Too much on my own mind. But I understand. They are so good at making US feel like WE'VE done something wrong. But you have not. Remember that. [/QUOTE]
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