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Bully problem, still!!
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<blockquote data-quote="looking4hope" data-source="post: 148020" data-attributes="member: 4362"><p>Unfortunately difficult children are targets for bullies because they are different, and because they give the bully the reaction he/ she is looking for! However, I would at least alert the parents about this incident, and ask them to talk to their child about respecting the property of other's, as well as people's personal space (a big issue with difficult children). </p><p></p><p>I actually had to talk to the neighborhood bully's parent the other day, as he came up and punched my son for no reason, and then pulled my son off his bike. This isn't the first time he's done something like this, and I've spoken with him about this type of behavior as well. Anyway, of course my difficult child lost it and got mad, hit the bully back and then came home in a rage with a bloody and scraped arm from the bike incident. That was it for me. I told this boy and his mother that if he caused any harm to my son or our property, I was calling the police. And the kicker was that this bully hit my son because my son wouldn't play with him because he's mean (which the bully admitted in front of me and his mom). Mom agreed to keep her son away from mine, so we'll see.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, I wish you luck. Try and talk to the child calmly, and see if you can get the two of them to agree to either leave each other alone or at least respect each other's property and space. Good luck!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="looking4hope, post: 148020, member: 4362"] Unfortunately difficult children are targets for bullies because they are different, and because they give the bully the reaction he/ she is looking for! However, I would at least alert the parents about this incident, and ask them to talk to their child about respecting the property of other's, as well as people's personal space (a big issue with difficult children). I actually had to talk to the neighborhood bully's parent the other day, as he came up and punched my son for no reason, and then pulled my son off his bike. This isn't the first time he's done something like this, and I've spoken with him about this type of behavior as well. Anyway, of course my difficult child lost it and got mad, hit the bully back and then came home in a rage with a bloody and scraped arm from the bike incident. That was it for me. I told this boy and his mother that if he caused any harm to my son or our property, I was calling the police. And the kicker was that this bully hit my son because my son wouldn't play with him because he's mean (which the bully admitted in front of me and his mom). Mom agreed to keep her son away from mine, so we'll see. Anyway, I wish you luck. Try and talk to the child calmly, and see if you can get the two of them to agree to either leave each other alone or at least respect each other's property and space. Good luck! [/QUOTE]
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