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Bully problem, still!!
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<blockquote data-quote="crazymama30" data-source="post: 148087" data-attributes="member: 3184"><p>Marg, part of the problem is that difficult child tells the truth, but it is the truth from his perspective which is sometimes much different than everyone elses'. I am sure I am not getting the whole story. If this was happening on the school bus, then the school would be responsible. We (and the other boy) live so close to the school that bussing is not an option. It is happening off school grounds, and from what difficult child says the other boy is seeking him out. I am not sure what kind of reaction I would get from his parents, but I suspect it would be one of what do you want me to do? The school has called his parents/mom several times and things get better for awhile and then it all slides back. In the states we have a school resource officer who is assigned to several schools to deal with issues. They do not usually spend much time at the elementary schools. Principal and others have mentioned having him talk to a group of boys as there are several who seem out to get each other. This is what I would like to do. I will call the school today and see if they can set this up, and if not maybe I will call the district office and see why it is not possible. I am sure that difficult child is not innocent in all this, but he has made such gains. He used to want to be a bully, that was his goal. Now he will tell you he is not a bully anymore.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="crazymama30, post: 148087, member: 3184"] Marg, part of the problem is that difficult child tells the truth, but it is the truth from his perspective which is sometimes much different than everyone elses'. I am sure I am not getting the whole story. If this was happening on the school bus, then the school would be responsible. We (and the other boy) live so close to the school that bussing is not an option. It is happening off school grounds, and from what difficult child says the other boy is seeking him out. I am not sure what kind of reaction I would get from his parents, but I suspect it would be one of what do you want me to do? The school has called his parents/mom several times and things get better for awhile and then it all slides back. In the states we have a school resource officer who is assigned to several schools to deal with issues. They do not usually spend much time at the elementary schools. Principal and others have mentioned having him talk to a group of boys as there are several who seem out to get each other. This is what I would like to do. I will call the school today and see if they can set this up, and if not maybe I will call the district office and see why it is not possible. I am sure that difficult child is not innocent in all this, but he has made such gains. He used to want to be a bully, that was his goal. Now he will tell you he is not a bully anymore. [/QUOTE]
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