difficult child blew it! we are suppose to go see him this weekend and he had earned his phase 2 so that we could take him on pass. He called today to tell me that he can NOT go on pass and he will understand if we don't want to go see him (it's his 18th b-day) I asked why he lost his pass and he said that it was because he didn't get up on time for a couple of days. I am sure that there is more to the story but it makes it hard to drive soo far to see him and then have to sit in the cafeteria for several hours. I guess I am just getting too old for this ****.