So GFG17 finally got home about 3:45 and sat in the driveway honking his horn. I had just spoken to FFM, and unknown to me, husband was talking to FFD. Said they were sorry, had no idea difficult child was causing all this trouble. Maybe because they NEVER go thru us, but him. Today I learned: He got fired from his main job He is a jerk He continues to lie, a lot His car has an extra 100+ miles in the last week, 600 total in 2.5 months He is in possession of a SIM card for a phone registered to some unknown person at an address where said person likely does not live He told someone he needs "two radar detectors" He is now badmouthing us on FB Someone is (again) threatening to kick his butt He did clean up his room when husband took away the car keys. I was very calm, but unbending. I stood there while he tried slamming his bedroom door in my face, I stood there waiting for him to clean. I started going thru his desk drawers, how I found the SIM card, and that's when he took action. He planted his feet this time, and refused to budge till I found that card. I guess the medications are working, cause he hasn't exploded. Of course, I was treated to more of the "you're a lousy parent", "you don't care", "you are___________" whatever. On and on. I'm shaking, I feel sick. I hate this!