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Hi all you wonderful people who understand what we go through.....
As I mentioned in another thread I have been worried about what I have been seeing on my sons fb page. Last night I was worried again but I have been keeping a low profile not saying anything about it but trying to just text to sort of stay connected.
Last night at 1am we got a call from our local police, the very nice officer who knows my son from the DARE program and who came when we kicked my son out last year. Anyway they had gotten a call from some girls who would not give their name that they had been texting with my son and he was saying he would harm himself... so they wanted to know if he was at home. Well no he is not living here.... but I did get up and gather all the info I could about where he is including the address of where we think he is staying.
They called back 45 mintues later. The police went to the home found him asleep, woke him up and talked to him. He did admit to being depressed but said he was ok and they felt he was ok. He did admit to someone (maybe the girls) that he had been drinking and using (what I don't know).
So I was very upset this morning... did try texting him which did not go through... finally it did and I asked him to call us after work. He said it was an exaggeration I am fine... I said to still call me and he asked what about. So I sent him another text which he has not responded to.... we want to let him know that if he decided to go into sober living we would help him pay for that.
I just think he has started that slipperly slope of relapse and from what I have seen his drug use is much worse and much more serious than i previously thought so I am scared of that....
It is so darned hard to take care of myself when I get to this place of being obsessively worried about him. I am just so scared that his bottom will be death....
As I mentioned in another thread I have been worried about what I have been seeing on my sons fb page. Last night I was worried again but I have been keeping a low profile not saying anything about it but trying to just text to sort of stay connected.
Last night at 1am we got a call from our local police, the very nice officer who knows my son from the DARE program and who came when we kicked my son out last year. Anyway they had gotten a call from some girls who would not give their name that they had been texting with my son and he was saying he would harm himself... so they wanted to know if he was at home. Well no he is not living here.... but I did get up and gather all the info I could about where he is including the address of where we think he is staying.
They called back 45 mintues later. The police went to the home found him asleep, woke him up and talked to him. He did admit to being depressed but said he was ok and they felt he was ok. He did admit to someone (maybe the girls) that he had been drinking and using (what I don't know).
So I was very upset this morning... did try texting him which did not go through... finally it did and I asked him to call us after work. He said it was an exaggeration I am fine... I said to still call me and he asked what about. So I sent him another text which he has not responded to.... we want to let him know that if he decided to go into sober living we would help him pay for that.
I just think he has started that slipperly slope of relapse and from what I have seen his drug use is much worse and much more serious than i previously thought so I am scared of that....
It is so darned hard to take care of myself when I get to this place of being obsessively worried about him. I am just so scared that his bottom will be death....