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<blockquote data-quote="keista" data-source="post: 449969" data-attributes="member: 11965"><p>I agree with <strong>upallnight</strong>. I'm just guessing that he either does not know about this other account or he has no access to it, otherwise that may have gotten tapped as well.</p><p></p><p>I had smaller similar issues with my husband. Fortunately when I got firm with him he would not use any of his cards without checking with me. For the most part, it worked.</p><p></p><p>What I failed to do, and I hope you are doing it, or consider doing it, is handling the family budget together. Not making him responsible for any of it, but on a weekly or monthly basis, creating a report/spreadsheet of sorts that shows what's coming in and whats going out in DETAIL. If there is any "extra" you can discuss together what will be done with it. This month he gets a casino trip, next month you get a spa treatment, or whatever. If only one person handles the finances,and the other has no clue, well, the other has no clue. Simply stating what's going on isn't sufficient. They have to see all the numbers in black and white (and red)</p><p></p><p>((((HUGS))))</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="keista, post: 449969, member: 11965"] I agree with [B]upallnight[/B]. I'm just guessing that he either does not know about this other account or he has no access to it, otherwise that may have gotten tapped as well. I had smaller similar issues with my husband. Fortunately when I got firm with him he would not use any of his cards without checking with me. For the most part, it worked. What I failed to do, and I hope you are doing it, or consider doing it, is handling the family budget together. Not making him responsible for any of it, but on a weekly or monthly basis, creating a report/spreadsheet of sorts that shows what's coming in and whats going out in DETAIL. If there is any "extra" you can discuss together what will be done with it. This month he gets a casino trip, next month you get a spa treatment, or whatever. If only one person handles the finances,and the other has no clue, well, the other has no clue. Simply stating what's going on isn't sufficient. They have to see all the numbers in black and white (and red) ((((HUGS)))) [/QUOTE]
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